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35 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
At 14 I decided I wanted to be an architect. I did it. (briefly)
At 27 I had a pretty rad career working on the most luxurious residences in NYC and around the U.S. practicing a different kind of design.
At 32 I decided that since I had no kids, no real responsibilities that maybe I should go off on my own. So I started a journey in a business I'd never had any experience with before in my entire life. I'm still figuring it out, but I can say one thing. I love what I do.

I think life is too short when you really think about it.

I'm always honest, upfront, and am a strong communicator.

I'm anything but vanilla.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living a life that is true to myself and leaving this place better than when I found it.

I believe in finding happiness in the present.

I do not take this city or my life for granted. I expect that you don't either. I try to say yes as much as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm always in a constant state of curiousity. Whether it's about NYC or what you enjoy. I'm always listening, engaging and learning.

So I guess you can say I'm really good at being an information sponge. Or more importantly finding ways to apply aforementioned knowledge.

Never ever being lost inside the Met.

My friends would say hosting or knowledge of NYC.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. Also I smile with my whole face a.k.a. I'm pretty genuine and easy to get along with.

But what you won't notice on sight is that I think kissing is undervalued.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books that teach me. I'm into films that have substance. I love almost all music in the right environment. I'm constantly in search of the next great meal.

Opening Up/Outliers/New York
Black Swan/The Departed/Eternal Sunshine ...
The Colbert Report
Black Keys/Mozart/Buddy Guy/Zeppelin
Everything minus the cilantro.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Green Spaces (white snow, blue water, orange sunsets)
Good People
Intellectual foreplay

Can't forget lists of things I could never do without. Right?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next....

How to experience life as much as possible before I die.

Does Einstein need to get walked?

Does anyone want to play Settlers or Dominion with me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully adventuring.

I'd much rather be on a date.

But staying in happens. Which I really don't mind as I'm trying to spend more time making art. All you flaky girls are simply helping me work on a masterpiece. (one day, maybe)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was once locked in the main Public Library on 42nd St overnight. I also went down into the stacks.

I don't believe in 100% sexual monogamy. Ideally I'd want to share the rest of my life with one person. A person who is sex positive and of a progressive mind set in that dept. But I just want to see if friends is a possibility?

I love what I do and hopefully you have found happiness on your own as well.

Opening Up, The Ethical Slut, and Dan Savage are all inspirations.

I have a thing for Sarah Mclachlan. Along with other very manly pursuits. I also appreciate design in more forms than you can imagine.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think a good guy is hard to find. You can see yourself with a new friend, or potentially more.

You want to collaborate on something cool.

We can type and get to know each other. Or we can make it organic and meet in person. You know organic is often better!

You wanna hang with a guy whose passionate about life and enjoying this fine universe.

Or perhaps you just want someone to go hiking or skiing with.