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35 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 11
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
At 14 I decided I wanted to be an architect. I did it. (briefly)
At 27 I had a pretty rad career working on the most luxurious residences in NYC and around the U.S. practicing a different kind of design.
At 32 I decided that since I had no kids, no real responsibilities that maybe I should go off on my own. So I started a journey in a business I'd never had any experience with before in my entire life. I'm still figuring it out, but I can say one thing. I love what I do.

I think life is too short when you really think about it.

I'm always honest, upfront, and am a strong communicator. I don't play games and if I like you, you'll hear from me.

I'm anything but vanilla.

I have a sidekick named Einstein.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living a life that is true to myself and leaving this place better than when I found it.

I believe in finding happiness in the present.

I do not take this city or my life for granted. I expect that you don't either. I try to say yes as much as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting from point A to B and I'm an information sponge.

Coming up with a plan.

Not remembering lyrics to a single song. It kinda sucks
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm easy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books that teach me. I'm into films that have substance. I love all music in the right environment. I'm constantly in search of the next great meal.

Opening Up/Outliers/New York
Black Swan/The Departed/Eternal Sunshine ...
Warhorse (the play NOT the movie)
Mark Ronson/Mozart/Buddy Guy/Zeppelin/Sia/Kanye (I know)
Everything minus the cilantro.
I don't watch much TV, a few series but I prefer more active pursuits.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Green Spaces (white snow, blue water, orange sunsets)
Good People
Intellectual foreplay
Lists of things I could never do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next....

How to experience life as much as possible before I die.

Does Einstein need to get walked?

Anyone want to play Settlers or Dominion? Or any game really.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Preferably adventuring.

Lately I've been home making some art.

But I could be discovering a new venue and a new soul.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was once locked in the main Public Library on 42nd St overnight. I also went down into the stacks.

I don't believe in 100% sexual monogamy. Ideally I'd want to share the rest of my life with one person. A person who is sex positive and of a progressive mind set in that dept.

I love what I do and hopefully you have found happiness on your own as well.

Opening Up, The Ethical Slut, and Dan Savage are all inspirations.

I have a thing for Sarah Mclachlan along with other very manly pursuits. I also appreciate design in more forms than you can imagine.
You should message me if
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you wanted to say something nice...

We can type and get to know each other. Or we can make it organic and meet in person. You know organic is often better!

You wanna hang with a guy whose passionate about life and enjoying this fine universe. A nice/sweet guy outside the bedroom that likes to change things up in the bedroom.

Or perhaps you just want someone to go hiking or skiing with.