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35 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:04am
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I believe love is an amazing thing worth experiencing. Which if you're lucky. You have relationships where you experience that.

I'm a pretty passionate guy who thinks a bit too much at times but knows how to chill out and have fun. I rarely say no, and I get along with women better than men.

My nephew thinks I have the absolute coolest job in the world, I think life is too short when you really think about it.

I'm always honest, upfront, and am quite the communicator.

If you want to be mesmerized, stimulated, and learn something... I'm your guy. If you can do the same ;)

Park Slope food-coop member

I'm anything but vanilla.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going all Howard Roark, cept I walked away from architecture and I opened up my own small business. This was definitely not the plan, but I can honestly say I love my job, not working for the man, and doing something I actually enjoy doing.

I believe in finding happiness in the present.

I do not take this city or my life for granted.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm always in a constant state of curiousity. Whether it's about NYC or what you enjoy. I'm always listening, engaging and learning.

So I guess you can say I'm really good at being an information sponge. Or more importantly finding ways to apply aforementioned knowledge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. Also I smile with my whole face a.k.a. I'm pretty genuine and easy to get along with.

But what you won't notice on sight is that I think kissing is undervalued.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a voracious reader, I try to see every Oscar nominated film and enjoy a steady stream of variety, go to Broadway rarely but loved Warhorse (hated the movie), TV is on in the background more often than not, if it's on at all. I get inspired by music and food... almost equally.

Opening Up/Outliers/New York
Black Swan/Good Will Hunting/Eternal Sunshine ...
The Colbert Report
Black Keys/Carlos Vives/Buddy Guy
Everything minus the cilantro.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Green Spaces (white snow, blue water, orange sunsets)
Good People
Intellectual foreplay
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to experience everything before I die. What's the next destination to check off my list. For the next meal, exhibit, show, or city.

How do I get my business to the next level.

Does Einstein need to get walked?

Does anyone want to play Settlers?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully adventuring.

I'd much rather be on a date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was once locked in the main Public Library on 42nd St overnight. I also went down into the stacks.

I don't believe in monogamy. I've done that for many years. Instead, I believe in ethical non monogamy and think it's really cool that they finally made it a category on here.

Opening Up, The Ethical Slut, and Dan Savage are all inspirations.

I really dig Sarah Mclachlan.
You should message me if
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You think a good guy is hard to find. You can see yourself with a new friend, or potentially more.

You want to collaborate on something cool.

You're totally game to do the crazy things no one else wants to do. Or the not so crazy but you're simply always game.

We can type and get to know each other. Or we can make it organic and meet in person.