I'm an Canadian expat who has spent the past couple years living in Paris, but is now living in the heart of Göteborg, Sweden! :D
I am creative, open minded, quick to smile and slow to anger. Most who know me well would likely say that I am protective and caring towards those around me, but it can sometimes be tricky for me to let my guard down around people - despite my laid back demeanor and "open book" personality.
When it comes to choosing my friends, I am rather picky. I realize that for an expat this probably isn't the best tactic, but I am the sort to keep people at a distance, or let them in all the way with little in the way of middle ground, so I prefer to be selective.
With that said however, I am very easy to get along with and always up for an adventure with new friends. After all, how better to figure someone out than by doing exciting things with them? :D
Beyond all that, I have a serious passion for photography. I love to shoot, and try to learn more about it everyday. If possible (and if i remember first thing in the morning) I bring my camera out with me every day, since you never know what you might find.
Also, for those still reading, I am in fact married to lireale (which is why i am listed as "Available"). We are in a non-monogamous / poly relationship, which is happy and healthy. If you don't know that this means, I'll be happy to talk about it with you as best I can. The short story, I'm not looking for random hookups. I am looking to make friends and let the chips fall where they may.
This should go without saying; All new friends need be open-minded about other ways of life, regardless of their own. ;)
If this is something that freaks you out, thats fine, it takes all kinds. But instead of messaging me to tell me you dont like my lifestyle, lets save each other the stress and part ways now. I have no interest in trying to change your ways to match mine, if what your doing works for you and isn't harming anyone else then all the power to you, all I ask is the same consideration. :)
To wrap up, for thos still reading, here are a few "-isms" to help you key on on who I am. I strongly identify with transhumanism and antitheism, believe secularism is always a good idea, err on the side of nihilism and generally preferhedonism whenever possible. :)