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47 F Portland, OR

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Last Online
Today – 9:41am
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Here we go. I'm a complete city girl with a country heart (in the back to nature/self sufficient/Johnny Cash soulful/ my grandpa was from Texas kind of way). Multifaceted.
I'm cultured, intelligent, open and honest, curious, active and loving, basically a people person and a real straight shooter. I'm also playful. Interested in many things such as art, film, music, nature, health, meditation, buddhism, laughter, the human psyche, volunteering with children/nature programs, travel, different cultures, social justice, saving the planet, peace on earth, the usual... I am not too serious, but I am deep and inquisitive. I enjoy life because to be alive is truly wondrous. Generally speaking I'm motivated to explore and live a life devoted to pleasure and kindness. Doing my best most of the time.

I'm happy with who I am, with or without a relationship. Although at this point in my life, an effort is being made on my part to meet new people. Hence OKC land.

I'm from SF (native), then moved to PDX 8 years ago, and I have family and friends literally all over the world who mean a lot to me.

Age is just a number. Interesting to judge so much on it. People always think I look younger , which I will attribute to genetics, hydration, sunscreen, and healthy living....I'm energetic and current, and maybe timeless. When I was a teenager out and about running around town, going to shows, feeling very worldly and mature at what 14..? You are who you are and how you project your energy. You are also your history, which hopefully makes you more interesting and experienced. Looking for someone energetic and timeless too.

Ran a health food store for many years in the Mission district of SF, worked on and produced movies, plays and film festivals. I love to sew and design costumes.

Another important part of the equation is that I have a super awesome grade school daughter. I am separated, and will divorce in the near future but not rushing that bc doing it slowly. So my time is somewhat limited. But I am clear and present. And interested in potentially spending quality time on a steady basis with the right person. OK long sentence there. Or... meeting creative people and having fun period - exploring these ideas.

OK enough about me. What about you? Are you wonderfully complex? Sane, grounded, intelligent, fun? Not totally bitter from your previous experiences? No multiple personalities. Can you have a good time sober too? :) Ready to be present again?

I will have to say I'm not so sure about online dating. It seems unnatural, and I'm still skeptical. But I'm willing to give it a try for a little while longer.
What I’m doing with my life
Exercising, meditating, dancing, volunteering, staying healthy, taking long walks, riding my bike, raising my kid, growing food in my giant yard. I'm also a music lover who is usually listening to something. Feeling the rhythm of life, and all the transitions. Finding the calm place no matter how intense the tide it.
Working in the entertainment (TV) world, and also in the natural health world.
I’m really good at
everything I want to do
finding something good in everyone
eye contact
looking deeply at things
staying busy
being excited about the world
moving my body
The first things people usually notice about me
Green eyes
Sassy attitude (kidding, sort of)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Kids by Patti Smith, any: David Sedaris, Dalai Lama, Keroauc, Bukowski, Ginsberg, Pema Chodren, Tom Robbins, Michael Pollan, books on gardening, astrology, tarot, whatever I'm curious about. Kind of love biographies - Read recently Life by Keith Richards and Pete Townshend Who I Am. Just finished Murakami's 1Q84 - what a ride.

Movies: Barbarella, Night of the Iguana, Shame, Mean Streets, wizard of Oz, Run Lola Run, Blade Runner, Misfits, Man Who Fell to Earth, Lolita, Borat, The Hunger, Who's Afraid of Virgina Woolf, Streetcar Named Desire, Young Frankenstein, Babydoll, Monty Python, Midnight Cowboy, Blue Velvet, Bullitt, Logan's Run, Beyond the Valley of the Dolls, Lord Love a Duck, Life Aquatic (any Wes Anderson movie), Cassavettes movies... I flippin' love great film.

Music: I'm a rocker with a huge appetite for music, listen to it all the time. Queen, Catherine Wheel, Pavement, Spoon, George Harrison, Police, Nirvana, Iggy Pop, Tame Impala, Of Montreal, Ting Tings, Psychedelic Furs, Who, Radiohead, Kinks, ELO, Lee Scratch Perry, Nick Cave, Jackson 5, Air, Beastie Boys, Depeche Mode, Can, Barry White, Blondie, Bo Diddley, Billie Holiday, Modest Mouse, Cheap Trick, Led Zep, AC DC, Joan Jett, Babyshambles, Interpol, Elvis, Cash, Stones, Pretenders, Boomtown Rats, Lee Hazelwood, Serge Gainsbourg, Black Keys, Cars, Dandy Warhols, Kool and the Gang, Killers, Interpol, Syd Barrett, Stones, Al Green, Beck, Roy Orbison, Aretha, Patsy Cline. R&B from 50's, 60's and 70's, Old Blues i.e. John Lee Hooker. Old reggae ie. Desmond Dekker & Jimmy Cliff. Tom Jones, Sammi Smith, Pink Floyd, fun new music to dance to ( I refer to it as exercise music), whatever is awesome ;)

TV: don't watch it very much, but will watch netfilx or go to theaters...Jon Stewart, Colbert, Flight of the Conchords, IT Crowd, Twin Peaks, Californication, Weeds, Pee Wee's Playhouse, Strangers with Candy, True Blood, Game of Thrones, Madmen, Ab Fab, Archer, Portlandia, Orange is the New Black...

Food: All but mostly prefer on the healthier plant based, ethically raised, and organic side (fresh local seasonal & no chemicals. yada yada).
Unless it's a Cajun feast, then all rules are out the window.
Or when in Rome as the saying goes. Life is short, best to enjoy.
The six things I could never do without
why 6?
a view
my child
hot springs
growing things
animals, human and otherwise
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Having fun, saving the planet, life, keeping an open heart and clear mind, my own evolution and enlightenment, getting down, what's happening right now. what I want to create for the future, and how what I do now affects that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing, movies, art opening, roller skating, cooking with friends, hanging with my daughter, whatever feels right.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love Jazzercise, and I don't care what you think about that.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you can actually leave the CYBER world, and enter the REAL world. There I said it, I don't love endless messages and texts, tires me out..... So I'm looking for someone who can appreciate these things I mentioned, and have fun with me. I'd like a natural friendship that grows over time with the right chemistry. That said - sustainable is preferable to a flash in the pan.
Here's a list :) a sexy friend who is also healthy, kind, affectionate, active, interesting, humorous, honest, focused, stylish, great at conversation, cultured, deep, and has a real joie de vivre. Maybe too much to ask, but I know it exists so...