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Desmets

38 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Cancer
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Romantic realist. High on empathy and a genuine feminist. I am doing my best at transforming traditionalism, shedding labels and discovering something beyond.

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I am in an open relationship.

Her and I have been together a long time.
We are very important to each other.
We both see other people.

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I'm interested in real connections with full time friends who enjoy romantic entanglement.

I'd like to meet someone of the independent, free will, strong minded variety. I like any woman whose passion for life is seemingly unstoppable, who is open, honest and forward thinking. I appreciate and admire women willing to initiate. There is beauty in everyone. So, ultimately it's the special connection you find in the complexity of each other that I desire most.

I am intense in relaxed ways. I enjoy the experience more than the event. I grew up on the West Coast and was always the new kid in school. I strive for some kind of organic originality. I find delight in alone time, focus of thought when one on one, and synergy in groups. Slowly and respectfully rediscovering the arts of frolicking, cavorting, and spelunking.

I give good text.

If you're couples only - that's okay too. I'm into meeting like minded people and would be interested to see if we'd match.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Theatrical Gestaltist
Procrastinating perfectionist
Finding solutions
Timing is important
Instincts are valuable

I work each week as a designer, carpenter, photographer, painter, electrician, manager, mentor and many other things, all for one, never-ending, artistically satisfying job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enabling greatness
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not really sure. Some people get me right away and some people don't. Some people are funny and some people are not but we laugh at them too sometimes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I enjoy books.
Mostly non-fiction with the occasional classic or must read that might catch my interest.

I really like movies.
BeastMaster, The Power of One, Ice Pirates, Army of Darkness, Bowfinger, Elf, & many more.

On Television.
Big BangTheory, How I Met Your Mother, Rachel Maddow, The Daily Show, Girls, Californication, Documentaries, Historical and Scientific with a dose of Science Fiction

I enjoy most things they call art.

I'm very eclectic and mildly disabled when it comes to music. I like more layers and less noise. The music of Dan Bern speaks to me often.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Non verbal communication
Impact driver
Perceptiveness
Enlightenment
Hindsight
Pockets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The vastness of the universe
Relativity
How less is more
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on a show, set, or deadline. It often seems like Wednesdays could be the new Fridays in NYC. So, it works out sometimes. Any place with good company is always nice.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes conversations can feel like kissing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–58
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel compelled.

You can turn nice into naughty.

You enjoy feeling full while still feeling hungry.

You see more psychedelic flowers and happy butterflies instead of chapels and bells.

If you'd like some company while you search for immortality.