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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Straight, Sapiosexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a farm-boy from central Kansas who left the country to pursue a scholarly life. I'm sensitive and caring, adventurous and passionate, generous and trusting. While naturally introverted (INTP), I'm ebullient once you get to know me. I over-think things way too often (this profile for one).

I'm a fairly quiet person and not at all prone to anger, though I am somewhat easily frustrated. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I love the beach and sunshine is one of my favorite things. I'm sure there's loads more I could say, but I wouldn't want to reveal everything at once. For more info, check the personality tab. I'd say it's pretty accurate.

Regarding the open relationship: I'm currently in a long-distance relationship and looking for local companionship. I don't consider myself polyamorous so I'm not looking for a second girlfriend so much as a friend with benefits. Still, I look forward to getting to know you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just finished my first year as a graduate student at Brown working on my PhD in sociology. I'm especially interested in agriculture, development, and the environment. I'm spending this summer ('15) in Brazil working on a large reforestation initiative.

In my free time, or what remains of it anyways, I like to cook, read, and do other things. Exercise needs to be one of them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, writing, dancing, navigating, giving massages, coming up with puns...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes and smile/lips. Eloquence. Critical thinking skills.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These are all woefully incomplete and represent what I've read/watched/see/listened to/eaten around the time of editing my profile as well as all-time favorites. I'm sure I'm forgetting some greats, though.

Books: 1984; Brave New World; Broke, USA; The Wal-Mart Effect; The Limits of Power: The End of American Exceptionalism; Flowers for Algernon; To Kill a Mockingbird; The Grapes of Wrath; The Sorrows of Young Werther; The Picture of Dorian Grey, Canticle for Liebowitz, The Communist Manifesto , Taking the Risk Out of Democracy, Freefall, Thus Spoke Zarathustra, Twilight of the Idols, Searching for Respect: Selling Crack in El Barrio, The Ecological Rift (Capitalism's War on the Earth); The Metamorphosis; Expensive People; The Gay Science (honestly everything Nietzsche); Christopher Moore's books; Feed; Cryptonomicon & Anathem; Ursula LeGuin's oeuvre. Dataclysm is interesting. Developing a taste for Murakami.

Movies: I love documentaries (Food, Inc. Supersize Me, Fahrenheit 9/11), foreign films ( Two Days in Paris, The Counterfeiters, M, The Edukators; The Lives of Others) and all of Quentin Tarantino's films. Chocolat; GRAVITY; Hobbit(the first one)/LOTR; Requiem for a Dream; All things Miyazaki (they're the only films that make me weepy); Whiplash; Interstellar (Yes, I know the science was crap; no, I don't care.); The Talented Mr. Ripley; Good Will Hunting; The Usual Suspects; Harakiri (possibly the most well-executed film I've ever seen), Mad Max: Fury Road (the quintessence of action movies)...

Music: (incomplete) Queen, Beethoven, Bach (I love the organ), Blue Scholars, Mahler, Alt-J, Daft Punk 80's-90's hip-hop, Neil Young, Head and the Heart, basically anything but contemporary country western (think Garth Books & Toby Keith), rap about bitches/hoes/money, and anything that screams at me.

Shows: Invader Zim, Adventure Time, Firefly, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Curb Your Enthusiasm, House MD, Louie, Bored to Death, Arrested Development, Futurama, Fullmetal Alchemist, Attack on Titan, Psycho-Pass, Black Mirror, RICK AND MORTY

Food: Indian/Asian food. Kimchi. Anything with a kick. My love for piquancy knows no bounds.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My laptop
Wholesome food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where society is going.
The environment (physical and mental).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
watching Netflix, maybe hanging out with friends. I don't go out much. I'm always open to adventures, though, and I enjoy being spontaneous. During school, possibly reading. Let's hope second year isn't as bad in that regard.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I talk to myself more than I think other people do. But of course one has no way of knowing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re down-to-earth and secure with who you are.

Intelligence is one of your turn-ons.

You're not a huge drinker; I rarely drink and super drunk people are just not my thing.

You can help me learn Portuguese.

You have a healthy skepticism of capitalism.