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Desmosome

23 / M / Straight / Single

Lawrence, Kansas

His Details

Last Online
Today – 10:57am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a farm-boy from central Kansas who left the country to pursue a scholarly life. I'm sensitive and caring, adventurous and passionate, generous and trusting. While naturally introverted (INTP), I'm ebullient once you get to know me. I over-think things way too often (this profile for one).

My philosophy is that this is the one life I have to live, so there's no sense in asceticism. I want to do something great with my life, but damned if I know what it will be. Maybe you feel the same way? Let's talk about it.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a sociology student at KU aiming to be a professor/author in environmental/political/economic sociology. Spent 4 months in Bonn, Germany last fall to learn about international politics and carouse and just have a wonderful time. I'm spending this summer working on a McNair research project regarding farmers' perceptions of the environment and climate change. Grad school is also creeping up on me (Fall '14). I'm fascinated by Nietzsche's philosophy and more and more convinced he was on the right path.

Besides that I'm trying to make the world a better place by spreading knowledge and compassion. I want to make others feel good about themselves so that they might do the same for someone else. I may be a bleeding heart at times, but I wouldn't have it any other way.
I’m really good at
Cooking, writing, dancing, giving massages, coming up with puns, critical thinking, being a dork.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've heard my eyes and smile/lips. Also probably my curly hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: 1984; Brave New World; Broke, USA; The Wal-Mart Effect; The Limits of Power: The End of American Exceptionalism; Flowers for Algernon; To Kill a Mockingbird; The Grapes of Wrath; The Salvation War; The Sorrows of Young Werther; and; The Picture of Dorian Grey, Canticle for Liebowitz, The Communist Manifesto, Taking the Risk Out of Democracy, Freefall, Thus Spoke Zarathustra, Twilight of the Idols, Searching for Respect: Selling Crack in El Barrio, The Ecological Rift (Capitalism's War on the Earth); The Metamorphosis; The Casual Vacancy; Expensive People; The Gay Science; Christopher Moore's books; currently reading "The Windup Girl"

Movies: I love documentaries (Food, Inc. Supersize Me, Fahrenheit 9/11), foreign films ( Two Days in Paris, The Counterfeiters, M, The Edukators) and all of Quentin Tarantino's films. Judd Apatow films are my guilty pleasure. I adore Billy Wilder. Wall-E, Ratatouille , A Foreign Affair; One, Two, Three!; Chocolat was surprisingly good.

Music: [Work in Progress] Grateful Dead (rarely), The Postal Service, Kid Cudi, Queen, Beethoven, Bach, Mika, Blue Scholars, Mahler, 80's-90's hip-hop, Neil Young, basically anything but contemporary country, rap about bitches/hoes/money, and anything that screams at me.

Shows: Invader Zim, Adventure Time, Firefly, Breaking Bad, Curb Your Enthusiasm, House MD, Louie, Bored to Death, Arrested Development, Futurama,

Food: Indian/Asian food (esp. sushi) is my favorite. Mediterranean also kicks ass. Mexican.
The six things I could never do without
My laptop
Wholesome food
Companionship
Books
Coffee/Chai
and
Hiking
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where society is going.
Politics.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
...you dig Marx(ism).
...you speak German. (Ja wohl!)
...you drink Pu-Erh and read Christopher Moore
...you are a feminist.
...you'd like to meet me.
Or because you want to; I'm not the boss of you (and don't message me if you expect me to be).