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Destiny-Smasher

27 M Crockett, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 7
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a storyteller who loves creative...anything. I'm a thinker, a lover, and sometimes a goofball. I think there's a time for silliness and a time for seriousness, and life is all about finding the right balance for yourself.

I care about openness and honesty above all else. I'm open to all sorts of things and people, and intentionally try to surround myself with people from different backgrounds and interests. I couldn't tell you exactly what I'm looking for in a partner because I'm not looking for a checklist; I have the capability to love and be attracted to all sorts of girls, and pretty much nothing on this dating site's "formula" of factors is concrete or set in stone. Real people are more complex than that.

I feel people are more complex than yes/no answers to questions.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently working on various creative works and a part-time job on the side to help fund my hobbies. I like where I live but am definitely not grounded here permanently.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, talking, loving, thinking, caring...
I love storytelling -- I am a storyteller and I love analyzing how different forms of media can express things about the human condition. I'm big into video games, but my life doesn't revolve around them. I care about people and conversations more then any form of media, and while I do love media and analyzing it, not everything needs to be serious.

I am good at being honest, open, and communicating and expressing my thoughts and feelings.

Oh, and while I'm a 'white', hetereosexual male, my main practice is writing fiction from a female perspective, usually about non-white characters. I care a great deal about media breaking out of this 'straight-white-male' mold and being more evocative and expressive of the entire breadth of humanity. I'm very interested in promoting equality of every sort, and I do so with my writing. I think that in some cases, stories can convey messages more effectively than debates or arguments.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A lot of people say I make them feel very comfortable and at ease. I get that a lot -- which I suppose makes sense, seeing as I'm pretty open-minded and comfortable with who I am, so I definitely want other people I interact with to feel the same way.

My eyes, apparently.

I come across as really shy or quiet at first in a group setting, but in heart-to-heart or one-on-one conversation I come alive -- either that, or just get me talking about stories, art, creative things. I can be pretty quiet when I don't know people (I observe and listen), but pretty talkative and expressive when participating in conversation. I know how to express myself and am not afraid to do so once I know someone is interested in having a real discussion.

People often describe me as thoughtful, observant, 'strong' (in the emotional sense), and loyal.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I do love video games a lot -- some of my favorites are fighting games like Super Smash Bros. Brawl or Super Street Fighter 4, but I also really like games that have a message or purpose to them -- BioShock, The Walking Dead, Journey.

Some of my favorite movies are Stranger Than Fiction, The Truman Show, Juno, The Terminal, and Scott Pilgrim vs The World.

My favorite TV shows as of late are Avatar: The Last Airbender/Legend of Korra (which is my #1 fav in general), The Walking Dead, Dexter, Community, Gravity Falls, and Adventure Time. I'm also a big fan of Joss Whedon's stuff, and really enjoyed Firely and Dollhouse.

I also love watching a lot of webshows with thoughtful analysis of media, culture, and video games, such as PBS Idea Channel, Gametrailers' Bonus Round, Extra Credits, and many of the web series on The Escapist.

My music tastes are a bit harder to pin down, but in general I guess my favorite genre is jazz? I like a bunch of stuff, but some of my favorite musicians lately are Billy Joel, Christina Perri, P!nk, Aivi Tran (aka waltzforluma), Protodome, and Owl City.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, hugs, conversation, creative expression, my hands, my mind, my heart.

(I'd say friends, or something like that, but to me that's not a "thing," that's just a state of existing)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...how we as people are able to expressive ideas, thoughts, feelings, and more through stories and creative works. How we can better each other and ourselves through sharing experiences and ideas through creative means.

I also spend a lot of time thinking about people I care about, and how I can bring something into their lives.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...chilling at home with my housemates, perhaps with some drinks and takeout, enjoying a good show, movie, or video game together in good company and relaxing -- enjoying the creative world we live in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I seem to absolutely love designing women's outfits/hairstyles for the female characters I write about, even though I can't draw them.
For example: http://fav.me/d6p078e
You should message me if
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...you value openness and honesty. You're here to meet actual people. You want to make friends with someone who shares common interests.

Or, ideally, if the idea of getting together and swapping TV shows or movies (or video games, books, or whatever) with each other as we share thoughts about what we're taking in is a thing that sounds interesting to you.

...if you know where the blue and white hat I'm wearing in my profile pic is from, and it matters to you, that's a nice bonus.