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DestinyFay

36 F Omak, WA

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  • Ages 25–58
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Oct 30, 2006
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My self-summary
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I am like an Onion.

Last Friday I went to a funeral. The night before I was very nervous and had a sense of foreboding about the event. It was a collegue of mine's ex hubby whom passed away. I never knew him. But I work with her, so I wanted to be there for her. I dont like negativity in large doses though....so I was not sure about the event.

I was pleasantly surprised to find a mass of people doing what I hoped for. Celebrating Life. The service was about Everlasting life, adn how this sort of end is really a new beginning. All those thing I believe and Love about Loving God. I have taught my daughter about such things as well, and it seems so elementary to me now. I am so glad I didnt go to see my co-worker in agony at such a loss, she was sad yes, but happy too. I found out that she also Loves the Lord in a real way. I was so happy to see that.

For awhile I was in a kind of Limbo there. I felt almost like a ghost. Just watching the event in slow motion. Studying faces, listening to speaches, wondering and being in wonder. At the reception afterwards some woman cracked a joke that blew my mind. We were in a elegant household with very elegant upstanding people and she says, "Well lets eat! Thats what we all came for anyways!" Of course she was making light of things but everyone sort of followed suit. I watched as the men gathered by the back door in their fine suits, laughing and joking and eating. The women conquered the kitchen and talked and wiped each others tears and huged each other.

I was totally struck by the beauty before me in each face. The kindness and humility the day had brought. Everyone was more themselves than perhaps they had been in a long while.....as they stood in reminder of their own mortality.

People whom spoke to me smiled truely and fully. Everyone gave fully of themselves. Perhaps for a while we all sort of lived like we were dying, which in fact, we are. We all are. It was a wonderful time.

How many can say they have a grand time at a funeral? Well I can. And I hope we all remember to continue the spirit in which we adopted that afternoon in the presence of roses and friends, hot delicious food and hearty laughter.

The day s turn to weeks and weeks to years and we tend to forget ourselves. I pray we shall not anymore.

After the long drive home (we were near Canada, Osoyoos) we all gathered at another collegues house and had wonderful Coffee, rich and frothy. I had two cups. We talked some more and complimented the decor of the place. It was warm and wonderful.

I am so glad I went.

This weekend left me with a lingering melancoly, or perhaps I was wistful.....yes that would be a better word. I was still in that strange realm it seemed. I was a watcher. Just studying those that passed by as I did this and that. I started noticing how many still smile their biggest smile for total strangers, how many give more than they can afford out of kindness and Love.

I belive the world is a beautiful wonderful place. There is evil and darkness and sometimes I get so upset at that that I sort-of become an introvert. I dont try to make friends or trust people because I dont want to get hurt or be disappointed. But I think I may be cutting myself short when I do that. Because there is still alot of good left in the world, in man-kind.

I think that is why the Lord encouraged me to go dispite my foreboding about it. I listened to him and I am glad I did.

THAT WILL TELL YOU ALOT ABOUT ME

I am intense, multifaceted, and artist
What I’m doing with my life
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Let us remember to Love one another, to not put value in the things of this world, but the things of the heart. Remember that this life is short in comparison to eternity and it is but an opportunity to choose Love rather than darkness. Let the Legacy of our Lives be something we can be proud of. If I never own anything and I am tossed about the world and the seas like a leaf displaced from a tree in autumn, let me still remember to Love and know joy in times of Light and Darkness......
I’m really good at
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The first things people usually notice about me
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I have pretty eyes. I am overweight but I carry it like a Venus sculpture. I like to laugh alot. I have a good outlook on Life. I am not like all the rest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) Lord of the Rings, The Bible B) I Love Movies c) James Blunt, Rob Thomas D) I Love Cooking
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, God, My Daughter, My Hands, My Feet, My Eyes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being a Good Mom
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At Home casual, cooking, having a drink, watching a movie with my daughter, reading, staying up late.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I often have a hard time keeping friends because I dont like to be around people who dont like to think or live meaningless lives.
You should message me if
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You want to be friends.