I like to think of myself as a student of human nature (trite and cliched, I know...but cliches exist for a reason). I am an English Academic with a deep love of the language and a passion for Psychology, Sociology, Philosophy, History, sex and sexuality.

I love talking about life, the universe and everything until the wee small hours of the morning and I'm always willing to expand my worldview when presented with interesting insights into myself, other people or the world in general. I also love cuddling up and watching T.V. series or movies or even just sitting around and listening to music.

I have been told that I'm interesting, funny and quite intelligent and that I give very good massages and excellent tickles. Most of my friends would describe me as "cute" or "cuddly", but that has more to do with my physique than it does my personality. Intelligence and a good sense of humour are definitely qualities I look for in all of my relationships, friends included, so I suppose that I'm a bit of a snob in that regard.

I am definitely not single and I am not available as I am currently involved with two wonderful women.

Apart from Polyamory, my interests in sexuality extend to all aspects of BDSM, the exploration of fetishes and fetishism activism, the plight of sexual minorities, the prevalence of sex-related crime and legal issues surrounding sex.

I am currently employed by UNISA as an exam and assignment Marker and Tutor. I find this work very stimulating and fulfilling, although there are times when it can be terribly frustrating.

On the other hand, the pay is great, I get on very well with my employers and colleagues, I get to work from home for the most part and I only have to work six months out of the year, which leaves me plenty of time to pursue my writing career and the two entrepreneurial enterprises which I am hoping to make successful!

Editing, writing, teaching, cooking, debate, public speaking, acting, roleplaying (specifically GMing), talking to people, listening to people, cooking, cuddling, massage and tickles

My general physique - My height, my weight and my blue eyes. Normally the next thing people notice about me is how much I enjoy talking to them and listening to them...getting to know them, in short. This also normally entails them encountering my sense of humour (which can tend to the sarcastic) and wit.

Books: Fantasy, science-fiction, literary theory
Authors: Umberto Eco, Michel Foucault, Bertrand Russell, T.S. Elliott, Arthur C. Clarke, Isaac Asimov, Terry Pratchett, Charles Stoss, George RR Martin, Robin Hobb, Stephen Erickson
Movies (my current top five, open to constant revision): Watchmen, V for Vendetta, 300, District 9, 13 Assassins
Music: Metal, hard rock, punk, alternative
Food: Pizza, curry, chillies, braaivleis, chicken

My Imagination
My Ethics
My Friends
My Books
My Music
My PC

Everything!!

Usually hanging out with friends, at our place or theirs.

I like Star Trek!

You like what you've seen so far...after all, my self-summary is just the wrapping, so hopefully you'll want to take a peek at the full package!