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28 Sacramento, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
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Middle Eastern, Other
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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If you are depressed, you live in the past...
If you are anxious, you live in the future...
If you are at peace, you live in the present.
--Lao Tzu

Live in the present with me, won't you? Amplify the perverse, spice the mundane.

Enough with the lies biatch.

I grew up in the bay area melting pot and sacramento, and have had a unique cultural experience. I was born in Malaysia and came to the US when i was 6 years old. People say i have a very global perspective. I am an educator and a visual artist, more specifically a teacher and oil painter that creates dream/surreal paintings. People describe me as very well rounded in my interests-- everything from nature, health, food, travel and adventure plus philosophical life contemplation. Very sensual and free spirited--my friends say I have a great sense of humor. Miss me if youre easily offended for I make fun of everything. I love making fun of stereotypical social structures and dont take myself too seriously. I rather create my own world than bask in the opinions of others, which are nothing more than mere projections of their own reality.

Im not on here looking for internet pen pals. I honestly think the pen pal thing is so beyond lame; 75 percent of communication is nonverbal anyway. In other words, people naturally get to know each other by seeing each other and talking--so talk about meeting up or miss me with the bullshit. We dont know each other, so lets change that!
What I’m doing with my life
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Being a male stripper and grinding my crotch on older women all night long as they stuff blood money into my thong as my penis sweats over wads of cash. Just kidding. Working to help my family..Working on surreal art, going to new exciting places, teaching kids in our community and staying healthy. I practice martial arts, weight train and do cardio and am trying to get back into yoga. I write and read a lot. I paint and love looking up new documentaries and movies on Netflix and researching random stuff on the internet. Attending socially conscious art and music events. And I read...trying to read a lot more stuff too.

I will be painting LIVE at a music festival this summer, care to join me ?

I also love to workout n ride bicycles all over town.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel at ease, and listening with positive intent.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That it is a little hard to fit me into a box...I look like a combination of different races. Its interesting to see peoples opinions. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Lets put it this way, I don't dislike any genre as a whole really, but i have preferences within every genre. I love trip hop, experimental hip hop, Ambient, alternative rock, well composed metal...some punk. I love Gotan Project, Marvin Gaye, Al Green, Sean Price, 2pac, Trap music, DJ Shadow, Jill Scott. Andre Nickatina. Arabic music..Beats Antique, The Cinematic Orchestra.

Movies: Psychological Thrillers are what i really love. Hard Candy, Reservoir Dogs, Fight Club, A Bronx Tale, Synechtochie, The Secretary. I love Foreign films.

Books: Chuck Phalaniuk, Anything to do with ancient healing/medicine. I love reading about Botany and history. Lord of the Rings, Kurt Vonnegut, Charles Dickens. Howard Zinn.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Self reflection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex. Honestly, not sure why people have such a hard time admitting it. We as humans require affection, don't lie about it.

What comes after death.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no "typical" with me. I don't really go for nightclubs although I do want to learn how to salsa dance. I love live music, trying new cool places to eat--i prefer hole in the wall or mom and pop spots over chains. I love going to art museums, hiking, and a good movie. Im drawn to positive crowds. I love mellow at home movie nights or painting together. Perhaps meditating together and reading. I like a balance of social and quiet reflection time. I also think bars and clubs are kinda stupid. Considering the people at them are usually idiotic and looking to make dumb decisions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Its kinda funny that most women on here are looking for a man who makes them laugh. It would be interesting to browse the male profiles to see how many men are seeking that from a woman. Lol!

Men are funnier than women. In general. Women kinda have it good in that way.

Im totally fed up with all this sugar coated game of charades internet nonsense.

I feel a lot of approach to love and dating is both artificial and superficial.

Okcupid? More like Ok STUPID!

Hearing women online that only seek men over 6'0 feet tall makes me want to openly state how big my penis is.

Kombucha tastes like 50 annoying hippies with clip boards. Like really annoying people that want to rant about bean sprouts and Kale. Just kidding--I LOVE Kombucha!!!

Im going to act really caring about your expedition to Africa to save starving children. I will also pretend to be excited about the mundane things you decide to initially tell me about yourself. Oh you grew up in Kentucky...well thats awesome and exciting.
You should message me if
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-You are into sustainable whatever...permaculture, organic living and farming. Hit me up
- You want to date me, and don't want some internet penpal
- You want a guy with a big heart ;)
- You want to travel the world, and learn new things, try new food, and connect with someone genuinely.
- you want to explore sexuality consciously
-You like taking road trips
-You are creative and eager to learn
-If you paint in oils/acrylics/ whatever...if you like to create.

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