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Dharmainabox

32 Aptos, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Status
Open relationship
Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am in an open/poly relationship with my partner of 10 years. I am not on here for a random hookup - I am looking for genuine relationships with people and going from there.

I am an academic, therapist, musician, and writer.
What I’m doing with my life
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Recently relocated from Chicago, IL to Aptos, CA.

I just finished graduate school and I am currently working from home, writing a book in a quite home by the sea.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like Phish, classic rock, and 80s punk. Then here or there with everything else.

Movies: The Big Lebowski, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Ghostbusters, Fight Club, Shortbus, American Psycho, Rocky Horror, and No Country For Old Men.

I don't watch much TV but enjoy discovery and PBS.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My partner
My pup
A guitar
Walking in the rain
Laughter
Water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Exeedes word limit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on the Friday.
You should message me if
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You have an open mind and enjoy good conversation.