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58 • Portland, OR • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–60
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 4:26am
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), LISP (Okay), Sign Language (Fluently), German (Poorly)
I'm with a lovely woman now and we're looking for a bi-lady for occasional dating and adult play. She's aching for the touch of the right woman and I... well... I love to see her pleased :-) Will share more info shortly...
Refined, sexy gentleman looking to make sparks with women of substance. I'm generous, healthy, well-balanced, insightful, PLAYFUL, receptive, sensitive, sensual and love to laugh heartily. In the interest of full disclosure, I'm non-monogamous but thrive on deep, rich, nourishing and juicy relationships; Of course, you're welcome to try and convert me otherwise. I'd totally date me! :-)
I'm looking to resonate deeply with one or more who are equally well-balanced. I'd prefer those who are attractive yet not "caught up" in it. I'd be delighted to find someone unbelievably sexy but will settle for believably sexy ;-) Someone who knows what they have and makes good use of their potential. I gravitate to those with a strong will, yet receptive to the needs of their partner. If you're passionate, sensual, funny, unconventional, open, authentic, a little mischievous yet compassionate and if you live fully and consciously, I'd be very pleased to hear from you. Mutual evolution and pleasure: that's not asking for too much is it? They say, we ultimately get what we want. But they also say, we get what we put up with. I think we get what we need AND what we deserve. What do you believe?
While I make my living as a Tech Support manager, that doesn’t define me. I’m a sensualist at heart, with a hippie mindset. I love to cook and enjoy conjuring up rich, new full flavors. I make wine. And beer. I’m a liberal and have a very low tolerance for those who are not. I play ping-pong and would relish taking you down (though I would never admit to it and certainly wouldn’t be that overt to do so – at least not, initially…).
There’s something very appealing to me about mindfulness, subtlety and nuance. But boldness and intensity are an attraction as well. I’m simple, yet complicated. I’m learning to hang on and let go and I’m acquiring the wisdom to know when each is needed.
If any of this appeals to you and you enjoy the gaze of a handsome, considerate man oozing with adoration, we may be onto something.
Movies: Shawshank Redemption, Benny & Joon, Pulp Fiction, Erotica, The Aristocrats, District B13, Amelie, Amadeus. Radio: Pandora: Nouvelle Vague Radio, Kelly Joe Phelps Radio,Emiliana Torrini, NPR
Blindness of patriotism
My role in this life
My next affair
Deep delicious connections
The horrible beauty of unfulfilled longing
Karma & if we keep doing what we're doing, we'll keep getting what we got
The beauty & art of balance
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