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DiabloDulche

56 / M / Straight / Single

Portland, Oregon

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:25am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Fluently), Sign Language (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Refined sexy gentleman looking to make sparks with a woman of substance. I'm healthy, well-balanced, insightful, receptive, PLAYFUL, sensitive, and love to laugh heartily.

While I make my living as an IT manager, IT doesn’t define me. I’m a sensualist at heart, with a hippie mindset. I love to cook and enjoy conjuring up rich, new full flavors. I make wine. And beer. I’m a liberal and have a very low tolerance for those who are not. I play ping-pong and would relish taking you down (though I would never admit to it and certainly wouldn’t be that overt to do so – at least not, initially…).

There’s something very appealing to me about mindfulness, subtlety and nuance. But boldness and intensity are an attraction as well. I’m simple, yet complicated. I’m learning to hang on and let go and I’m acquiring the wisdom to know when each is needed.

If any of this appeals to you too and you enjoy the gaze of a handsome considerate man adoring you, we may be onto something.

I'm looking to connect and resonate deeply with someone visually striking – someone brainy, creative, sexy, willful and mischievous. And may I add: healthy and well-balanced? I'd prefer someone with deep self-awareness, one who loves who they are. I gravitate to strong willed women, yet ones who are receptive to the needs of their partner. You are passionate, articulate, sensual, funny, unconventional, open, authentic, audacious yet compassionate. Someone who lives fully and consciously. In short: you are someone with whom mutual evolution, pleasure and play is not only possible but catalyzed. That's not asking for too much is it? They say, we ultimately get what we want. But they also say, we get what we put up with. I think we get what we need AND what we deserve. What do you believe?
What I’m doing with my life
Exploring. Aiming for clarity of perception. Enjoying the juice dripping off this luscious mango.
I’m really good at
Ping pong, gardening, making wine, reading people, expressing myself with clarity, being on time, cooking, riding horses, rhythm, making sweat, dancing, loving, hanging on, letting go, justifying and falling into temptation, growing plants, looking into your eyes, more than one, fixing things, deep appreciation, seeing motives, writing, fooling myself, driving, managing, feeling, laughing and playing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A Walk in the Woods (anything by Bill Bryson), Anything by Christopher Hitchens, The Last Barrier (Rashad Feild), Confessions of a Taoist on Wall Street (anything by David Payne), Ram Dass, Ethical Slut, Sex at Dawn
Movies: Shawshank Redemption, Benny & Joon, Pulp Fiction, Erotica, The Aristocrats, District B13, Amelie, Amadeus. Radio: Pandora: Nouvelle Vague Radio, Kelly Joe Phelps Radio,Emiliana Torrini, NPR
The six things I could never do without
Avocados & Artichokes
Bandwidth
Humor
Red Wine
Spice
Breasts (natural)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Liberal vs. Conservative
Blindness of patriotism
My role in this life
My next affair
Deep delicious connections
My motives
My reactivity
Slowing down
The horrible beauty of unfulfilled longing
Karma & if we keep doing what we're doing, we'll keep getting what we got
The beauty & art of balance
On a typical Friday night I am
Wine tasting, discourse over beers, watching a movie, eating out at one of Portland's amazing restaurants, looking for the "perfect" date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
OK. I pulled the fire alarm outside the Concord NH State Capitol building when I was 7. My hand was still on the lever when the building emptied and the cops, ambulance, fire-trucks and EMTs all arrived. I wasn't the sharpest knife in the drawer - and it certainly wasn't one of my proudest moments - but I thought it was an automatic postal machine. It was hard to explain.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
...you're an old soul, you like to play, you like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MyuL1z2tejs - you feel the pull & think we're compatible (& you don't watch Fox news)