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28 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:24pm
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I feel like I have a strong grasp on what makes me happy, where I want to go, and who I want to be. My career is on a great path in the games industry, where I write stories for a successful bay area game studio. I'm a book nerd who also loves to cook and swordfight in the park on weekends. I have lots of great friends in the area after only living here a few years--all I'm missing is someone particularly special to share in the fun.

My MBTI type is INFJ.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a content designer for a mobile games company. Right now, that means I spend a large part of my day writing dialog and quests about cute animals. I get to read a lot of Wikipedia. Did you know that the Nahuatl word for armadillo translates to "turtle-rabbit"?

In my free time, I read a lot, I write a little, I cook, I swordfight in the park, and I practice guitar.

Life is good--I have a solid idea of who and what makes me happy, I know how to seek that happiness, and I'm (almost) always willing to try something new.

If it all falls apart, I plan to keep goats for cheese and bees for honey.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, when I'm not abandoning the recipe halfway through to test a weird idea about flavor combinations. Lately, I've been messing around with creamed spinach. Mmm.

Unquenchable optimism helps here, too. I try to find the best in the people and situations around me, and I like to see that attitude rub off on folks.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a pretty strong stage presence wherever I go. My voice is strong and my expressions are animated. I laugh frequently and from the gut. I smile a lot, and always mean it. I have unusually long eyelashes for a guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love science fiction, bad movies, heavy metal, and meat. Right now, I'm reading Preacher while I wait for the next Hellboy In Hell trade to come out, but I'm also poking through the 5th edition D&D books and the new Neal Stephenson book of optimistic science fiction.

I'm listening to a lot of Sonata Arctica, ambient music overlaid with historical NASA radio chatter, and falling asleep most nights to "Listen to Wikipedia" (
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Optimism, novelty, healthy attachment, a small measure of sacrosanct personal space, an intrinsically-derived goal, and good shrimp toast.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Most of my thinking time happens during my walk to the BART. Are we in a tech bubble? What will I do if it pops? When am I ever going to get around to all those games I bought on Steam? When's the last time I called my folks (inevitably, "about a week ago")? Occasionally (and enjoyably), deeper bits of metacognition.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting on my back porch and talking to the cat that lives on my block while he lets me pet him. It's cathartic; he keeps showing up, and I keep having stuff to say. A few weeks ago, he finally let me touch his belly. He is the king of the block, and I am his respectful interlocutor.

When not opportunistically cat-talking, I love to go to the movies. Movies themselves are fun, but the ritual of going to the theater is special, even if the movie stinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have always wanted to be a wizard, and I would change careers at the drop of a hat if wizard became a viable option.

Bonus Knowledge: The city of San Francisco requires that all cartomancers, psychometrists, phrenologists, scryers, rhabdomancers, mediums, seers, astrologers, necromancers, and telepaths etc. be licensed with the SFPD to tell fortunes, cast spells, and/or pretend to tell fortunes and cast spells. This is a true fact that I did not make up. The license costs $350, and if you want to obtain it, the police are required to post a public notice on the place where you intend to do these things so that all your neighbors are informed of your intent.
You should message me if
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If you've made it this far, you should probably say hi! Doubly so if you're happy, but not yet satisfied.