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27 M Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:42am
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm only human, but I'm pretty good at it.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a content designer for a mobile games company. Right now, that means I spend a large part of my day writing dialog and quests about cute animals. I get to read a lot of Wikipedia. Did you know that tree kangaroos lick their own forearms to cool off instead of sweating?

In my free time, I read a lot, I write a little, I cook, I play an assload of video games, I swordfight in the park, and I practice guitar.

Life is good--I have a solid idea of who and what makes me happy, I know how to seek that happiness, and I'm (almost) always willing to try something new.

If it all falls apart, I plan to raise goats and keep bees.
I’m really good at
Unusual propositions, unquenchable optimism, and cooking (when I'm not abandoning the recipe halfway through to test a weird idea about flavor combinations). Lately, I've been messing around with sous-vide rack of lamb. Mmm.
The first things people usually notice about me
Broad shoulders, stage presence, and long eyelashes around dark eyes. Gregariousness! Occasionally some gnarly bruises from the aforementioned swordfighting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Science fiction! Bad movies! Heavy metal! Spicy food!

(But you and I know that such descriptions are never the whole story.)

I just finished reading a book on English Martial Arts, and now I'm getting into The Peshawar Lancers.
The six things I could never do without
Optimism, novelty, healthy attachment, a small measure of sacrosanct personal space, an intrinsically-derived goal, and good shrimp toast.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Narrative structure. Wondering if we're in a tech bubble, and if it's going to crash, and what I'll do if it does (wondering, mind you, not worrying). Goats, and where to find them. My huge backlog of yet-unplayed games on Steam. If I'm ever going to bite the bullet and move into San Francisco instead of lurking in the East Bay (probably not). How to be gentle without over-compromising. How to value what I know and have in the understanding that I can never have or know everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting on my back porch and talking to the cat that lives on my block while he lets me pet him. It's cathartic; he keeps showing up, and I keep having stuff to say. A few weeks ago, he finally let me touch his belly. He is the king of the block, and I am his respectful interlocutor.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have always wanted to be a wizard, and I would change careers at the drop of a hat if wizard became a viable option.

EDIT: Did you know that the city of San Francisco requires that all cartomancers, psychometrists, phrenologists, scryers, rhabdomancers, mediums, seers, astrologers, necromancers, and telepaths etc. be licensed to tell fortunes and/or cast spells with the SFPD? This is a true fact that I did not make up. The license costs $350.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
In a perfect world, you're a petite bluestocking looking for a burly, whimsical autodidact. You're comfortable inside your own head and body. You're happy, but you're not yet satisfied.