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25 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-99
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Feb 18, 2014
Hispanic / Latin
Seeing Someone
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an urbanist. I enjoy good conversation, sunshine, pastries, walking, and I love cats (yep). I make a lot of mordant remarks when I'm comfortable and tend to be quiet when I'm uncomfortable. I have a bit of a Napoleonic complex, but I am disquieted by compliments. Most of my friends are guys. I don't know how to drive and the thought of it scares me; same thing with swimming.

My mentor, who probably knows me better than anyone, called me the following:
"self-depricating ironic feminist type"
"short, brown and opinionated"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at a CDC in Harlem and I'm getting my MA in urban planning. Other than that:
Drinking coffee, reading, writing
Making eye contact with strangers on the train
Coffee/drinks/food and conversation with friends
Going to talks, events, etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Apparently, not taking shit from anyone
Projecting my voice
Bruising the banana/peach/avocado I brought into work
Accidentally staring off into people's crotches on the train
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height. And sometimes, that I am "sassy".
Oh, and lipstick.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Savage Detectives, Dibs in Search of Self, References to Salvador Dali Make Me Hot, Love (by Toni Morrison), Junot Diaz, Gary Shteyngart

Movies: King of California, Octubre, American Beauty, Me, You, and Everyone We Know, Ghost World, Crash, Memorias del subdesarrollo, Everything is Illuminated, Forrest Gump, Garden State, Woody Allen

Music: The Arcade Fire, Radiohead, Animal Collective, Buena Vista Social Club, Benny Moré, Jorge Ben Jor, Davendra Banhart, The Tallest Man on Earth, Local Natives, Vampire Weekend, Belle & Sebastian, of Montreal, A Tribe Called Quest, Atmosphere, Andrew Bird, Julio Jaramillo

Shows: Mad Men, Breaking Bad, Democracy Now!, This American Life, The Brian Lehrer Show, The Moth

Food: I am a fan of cheese and I have a huge sweet tooth. I probably eat greek yogurt and granola (with bananas and golden raisins, duh) way too often.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good conversation
news/new knowledge
good snacks
my jamz
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People, memories; nostalgia
What I should write next
The future~
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Half of the time I'm reading or working on a project; the other half I'm out with friends.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you can engage in conversation.

That sounds mean, but 90% of the messages I get are from people who think that "hi :)" or "How was your day?" or a compliment is enough to warrant a response. I am, more than anything else, interested in conversation.

That also sounded a little mean. Oh well.