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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–36
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:59pm
Black, Native American, White
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Less than $20,000
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I quit smoking 2 years ago.
I'm finishing school for career advancement and stability.
I have the Tweets but no book of faces.
I'm a madman, but a stable one.
I have a beard sometimes, in winter. Otherwise it's at most stubble.
I walk a lot.
I am passionate, intelligent, gregarious, an athletic klutz, unconventional, a nonconformist, love to build things, love making people laugh and being absurd.

I'm not religious, don't believe in god and I never will. I love science and classify myself as an empiricist.

I am very liberal.
I can't breathe when I run.

I don't own a vehicle. I use public transit and walk. I live like I reside in a large city.

I was raised by a single mom and because of it, I believe in gender equality. If you don't believe you're equal and capable, then we won't get along.

My contest is only with myself, to do it right, with power and force, delight and gamble--Matt Dillon as C. Bukowski in Factotum(not a fan of Bukowski but I like this quote)

Inside every cynical person, is a disappointed idealist.--George Carlin
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I design and build things, mostly for the Collegiate Theater I work for, and some for myself. I teach students to build things. I work for my friend's film company
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Doing my best at everything I do, But I excel at building things, driving, talking to people, problem solving, and creative thinking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall, they never get my ethnicity correct, I'm weird, out going and very intelligent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: The Odyssey-all time favorite. Fahrenheit 451-scariest. Catcher in the Rye-the funniest.
The Fountainhead-favorite statement on individualism. Although, I don't agree with Rand's philosophy, I appreciate her comments about individualism. I love my individuality.
Darwin's Radio-favorite fictional story about the very real science, centered on evolutionary leaps, that counters the Gradualism Theory of evolution.

My favorite quote about books--"we need to make books cool again. If you go home with someone and they don't have books, don't f#ck them."--John Waters

Movies: comedies, Sci-fi, horror, foreign, documentaries, educational, classic.
The last three movies that caused me to have a visceral response were "The Dead Girl", "The Assassination of Jesse James by the coward Robert Ford", and "Melancholia."

TV:comedy, sci-fi, education, PBS, History, certain british shows, Whedon's

favorite comedians: Richard Pryor, George Carlin, Robin Williams. New comedians- Lewis Black, Patton Oswalt, Dave Chappell, Whitney Cummings, Sarah Silverman, Louis C.K.

food: pizza, cereal, yogurt, Michigan cottage cheese, lentils, ethnic foods, pie

Music I love dark and hard hitting. punk, new wave, 80s electro, disco/funk, folk/blue grass, power/dragon metal- favorite genres. cello and viola- favorite instruments. I can't quit listening to Future Islands right now. Little Dreamer is my current favorite.

LEGOs-favorite toy ever.

Scotch-alcohol of choice.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books, coffee, knowledge, passion, comedy and laughter, intelligence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of the universe and our connection to it.
Theoretical physics
The state of being human.
How to make people laugh more without being obvious or cliched.
Greed-Why people still horde money and resources when we have an abundance of both and abundant access to both
Being a stand up comedian.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typically nothing. After working all week, I like to take the rest of the day to relax and unwind. I'm not big on hanging out in bars either. I just really like to do nothing on Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm magic.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I know what I want, I am honest, almost to the point of being blunt(word play), and I would like to find someone similar.

You are a straightforward, confident, intelligent woman and you think you can make me laugh.

You like tall klutzy nerds who are adept at building things.
You like science and learning.
You read books

These things are a plus but aren't mandatory:

You're tall 5'9"-6'0".
You have freckles.
You play volleyball.
You dance ballet.
You play cello or viola.
You don't have your phone in your pictures.
You're not in a bar in your pictures.
You are a comedian.
You are a scientist.
You don't own a dog. They're fine animals, I like them, but I don't want one as a pet.