Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have been a house wife, and am a Mother of 2 beautiful girls, one
who will be 20 in Dec. and the other will be 4 on Halloween. I have
found that I am very much more than the sum of these parts. I am
intelligent, enjoy books avidly, almost any kind of music and enjoy
talking about anything and everything, the more philosophical or
esoteric the more fun for me. I also enjoy renaissance
re-enactment, especially the sword fighting. I am looking to expand
my friends and also looking for that one long term relationship. I
like to pamper whoever I am with, make their favorite foods, give
back massages, and share as much of life as possible. I am a coffee
and Tea snob. Nor do I mind going for random walks, getting down on
the floor and playing with my 3 year old, either with legos or even
something messy like finger paints. I have an old back injury which
limits some of my activities but I enjoy hiking, and whatever other
activities I can do, while I'll go for a walk on my own or with my
daughter, I really enjoy walking with someone special, even if its
just around a few blocks or walking a dog. I had a akita/husky/lab
mix that I unfortunately had to adopt out after the baby was born
but I do enjoy dogs. My Favorites are large well mannered dogs, pit
bulls, mastiffs, rottweilers rank up there on my favorite
I am a Pagan and have been Pagan for over 20 years. I am very
serious about my spirituality.
Yes my profile is long... thats due to me trying to give as much
information to the "honestly looking for a relationship" guys. I
figure the more information you have the more there is to work
What I’m doing with my life
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Being a mom for many years. Studying to become a Master Herbalist
taking an online course. Dealing with some heavy duty legal stuff
based around the physical father of my youngest, (Sorry he's never
acted like a father or dad so I just can't call him that). I'm not
involved in most of the legal stuff except on the very outside of
it but it effects my time and my daughter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Usually I am very good at being the household PDA, calendar I keep
everyone in the household organized but that means I drop the ball
sometimes on my own life organization. I have the most pride in my
cooking. I can say there is Very little I can not cook and cook
well. I enjoy trying new foods, trying new places to eat then go
home and try to find out how to reproduce what I've had. I also
enjoy hunting, making jewelry, getting together with people, for
renaissance re-enactment and learning sword fighting which I'm not
bad at. I also am trying to learn belly dancing. I am writing a
novel which I intend to self publish in the digital forum so I am
also working on learning more about that while trying to find time
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually my hair then my eyes then that I am typically soft spoken
and somewhat shy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There is not enough room to list even a bit of my favorite books,
one room in the house is a combination office and library. I have
favorite authors that I collect, Laurel K. Hamilton, Christine
Feehan, Sherrilyn Kenyon, Dean Koontz and many many others. There
isn't much I won't at least try reading. I do enjoy Shakespeare and
one of my favorite sci fi books is "Stranger In a Strange Land" I
also enjoy Douglas Adams and (showing my age here) Ray Bradbury. I
prefer action/adventure movies, my last "romantic" date took me to
see SALT.. I will watch "chick Flicks" but very rarely, as my
version of a chick flick is The Bourne Trilogy, Blade movies and
movies like UltraViolet. I listen to everything from Classical to
heavy metal to oldies. My favorite kind of food is Japanese,
especially sushi/sashimi. However I also enjoy Indian food, mild
curry's and try to make them at home. I am a pretty big wimp when
it comes to spicy foods although I will cook them for other people
and even make super spicy salsa from peppers grown in my garden.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Children, especially my youngest' laugh!
Being able to cook
Friends and family
Not really in any specific order :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life the universe and everything. The long dark teatime of the soul
and if you recognize those types of thinking message me. I also
don't think about things in a straight line. My thought process is
best described as a pin ball game in full play with multiple extra
balls always in play. But I can follow other peoples thought
process easily and usually end up carrying on multiple
conversations when there are several people around.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Currently spending my Friday nights at home. Watching something
with my little girl or reading pretty much anything from sci fi to
true crimes and whatever else strikes my fancy (which I have to say
sometimes is even a text book, or when I was sick and couldn't get
my hands on a book, the do not remove labels on furniture or cereal
boxes if it is all there is)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I absolutely despise doing dishes... I had my first motorcycle
lesson with my Dad's Harley. Lesson to be learned... don't over
think everything, and don't overbalance! Gravity works! Got it...
time for lesson 2 :)))
You should message me if
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You are interested in a friendship that might become something
more, however you must be alright with the fact that my children
come first. Also if you like a lot of conversation, very little TV,
a huge amount of books around with frequent library trips. I'm also
a Mac person not a PC person. Before I forget to mention it, I am
also a Starbucks addict and even have a rewards card with them that
I use religiously. Not that I can't make some darn good coffee's at
home either. Realistically I'm also looking for someone who isn't
afraid of taking the first steps together to talk, chat, meet
whatever. You have to be brave about it, it is what I am trying to
do here with this site. Don't message me if your just looking for
someone to try to get a "booty" call from. That is NOT me. So if
thats what your looking for... keep on looking...
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