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Dilettante72

37 / M / straight / Available

Montreal, Quebec, Canada

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
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Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am a non-conformist, independent, and libertine.

My Self-Summary

I've asked friends and lovers about which 3 adjectives to select. While most agreed on libertine, independent and non-conformist, other strong contenders where: honnest, independent, mischievous, affectionate, too clever, sensual, introvert, snobby, eccentric, open-minded. Actually, I left out disturbing, reddish, liquid, iconoclast and charming because some of my friends have way too much imagination...

It takes a couple of minutes to tell if the chemistry is right, but I've never been able to analyse all the secret ingredients that make the right mix. There's a cup of honesty, wit and independance for sure. A pinch of sexy attitude probably, and no jalousy must be added. The rest of the spices, I'm still deciphering... I seek an intense relationship, both very physical and with great chemistry. Not a one-night-stand, nor a let's-get-to-know-each-other-before-moving-in-together, but somewhere in between, where it's hot and exciting. Intimacy, fun and pleasure are paramount. Simply stated, I'm looking for a lover.

What I’m doing with my life

I've left my company 3 years ago and since then I've been travelling quite a bit, doing more photography, not enough painting, learning new things, thinking, loving and having fun.

I’m really good at

not giving a simplistic answer to a somewhat complex question.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Eclectic tastes in music, from mainstream pop to lots of EBM/industrial. I tend to read more in French, with much admiration for Houellebecq, Beigbeder, Gavalda, Vian and Dumas. For some reason, in english I tend to read more scifi/fantasy, George R R Martin, Heinlein, ... So many great movies, some I watch over and over would be Le fabuleux destin d'Amélie Poulain, Love Actually, Out of time

The six things I could never do without

I spend a lot of time thinking about

sex, models for relationships, sex, capitalism, sex, public transportation and sex.