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22 M Lodi, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–24
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 26
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I've tried making these areas seem fantastic and lovely. But I'm never good at doing that, and I'm not going to try and game the system. If you don't like what's here, so be it. Enjoy your time on OKC

I play games, I love reading, and I think there is nothing better than building a camp fire and staring into its dancing flames all night with someone you care about. I've come to realize chopping wood is one of the most satisfying work outs I've ever done, and I wish I could do it more.

I love to talk when someone wants to listen. However, if I see that you don't really care, you won't hear much out of me. When someone clearly shows a disinterest or only wants to talk about them, I walk away. Literally. If i'm bored with what we're doing, I'll walk away from the situation and do something else. Some people dislike it. Others know that's just how I am, and I don't mean anything by it. I still love you.

I dive head first into the things that I love, and I am a creature of habit. Once something becomes part of my routine, I rarely break away from it. Mostly because I love it if I do it more than 3 times, and I tend to never revisit something if I overall disliked it.

I lived in Jersey my whole life. Sarcasm and taking no shit is part of my blood, really. Yeah, you can make me feel insecure if you know what to say, but if I dislike you, you'll know it.

And... that's about it for now, I think. I could say more, but then again, you might be bored by the end. :) Message me if you want some good conversation.
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated with a Marketing degree.

Marketing is competitive, especially community management. Right now I'm building online communities to bolster my ability to work them. I could talk your ear off about different communities that are popular right now and what you need to do to succeed in them, and what will make you crash and burn.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Civilization V, Dark Souls, and Mega Man X are probably my best 3 games. Currently part of a competitive Civilization V group on Steam. Fun stuff.

I know what to say and when to say it when someone is upset. Those key phrases that really push a person into a realization, make them finally let go of their hurt, or get them to admit when they really want to do something but won't admit. I love being able to help people in that way, and it's taken years of just... talking and talking and talking to get to that point. Lot of work, and I've learned the hard way sometimes you just have to walk away.

Otherwise, I'm pretty damn good at fitting into a community when I need to. Learning what makes it tick, what the members hate and love, what they need and want. It's a lot of fun to navigate that maze and learn it's paths.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My opinionated nature once you've got me going on a topic I know a bit about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Wheel of Time, Song of Fire and Ice, Mistborn Series, Eragon Series, Halo series, The Gift of Fear, Ender's Game. I feel like I've read more, but that's probably because Wheel of Time took up a year and a half of reading in the past 2 years, so maybe I'm not as caught up as I thought.

Games: Civilization V, Halo, Dark Souls, Majora's Mask (OoT's much cooler brother), Demon's Souls, Assassin's Creed: Revelations, Minecraft, Borderlands (1. 2 is... it doesn't have bloodwing), Super Smash Bros (Melee, Brawl, and Project M), Bioshock 1 & 2 (don't hate. 2 was good).

Movies: Hmmm. I don't watch much. Pacific Rim, Mean Girls, PS I Love You, Shrek, Lion King, Aladdin, Batman, The Matrix. There's really more, but thinking of them on the fly is tough.

Music: Uh, I've been listening to the same playlist (like 100 songs) for 4 years straight. You'll probably get to know my music tastes very quickly, and then get sick of them haha.

Shows: Banshee!!!, Doctor Who, FMA: Brotherhood, Breaking Bad, Parks and Recreation, New Girl, Walking Dead, Baccano!, Cowboy Bebop, Avatar (very meh about Korra, though), How I Met Your Mother (fuck that ending)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family. 2 brothers, sister, mom, and dad. I'll drive 6 hours to spend a day with them, even if we do nothing but watch TV for that day. Love them.

The Internet

That feeling when you wake up and only want to squeeze your blanket tighter.

Knowing all the words to your favorite songs.

Memories of things that are long past.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Depends on the night. What cocktail do I want? What social policy will I open? What should I throw together as I learn how to cook?

I don't put a lot of thought into noticing what I'm thinking about. It just doesn't concern me to worry about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Netflix or catching up with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It really is better to have loved and lost.
You should message me if
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You're looking for to have a good conversation. You enjoy dancing with someone who might not be the absolute best (I try! I don't step on toes thank god), and someone who is totally cool with a first date being bowling, pizza, and beer.