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40 M West Haven, CT

My Details

Last Online
Feb 15
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Recently adding these lines preceding the BS reference. I've always heard that want a guy who's sweet and (insert various other adjectives/character traits) but I have come to the conclusion that it's not the whole truth. I've always been one of those guys, but get overlooked by the ladies that catch my eye for whatever reason. My desires are simple for the most part but I guess too much to ask in today's society. That said, on to my still original bio. No reason to BS or "put the best foot forward" only to find out months later that it was just enticement. I'm somewhat old-fashioned with a unique twist. Someplace between Agnostic and Atheist while being spiritual and believing in spirits. I don't believe in these dating rules and crap, like I said... old-fashioned... with some kick to it. The best way to learn about me is to ask away, if something is too private for sharing, I will usually explain why and when I might be able to feel comfortable sharing. Me personally, I'm a people watcher. Photography and art have both fostered that. So, don't feel like you're under a microscope, I'm usually at 10,000 feet looking down. AFTERTHOUGHT - as I was filling out the My Details section... Smokes, maybe a cigarette a month, maybe a cigar every couple of months (good cigars). Body type, listed as a few extra... only recently added on more than that due to stress and emotional (family health) eating.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a late bloomer, went back to college after time off and put myself through it with the help of tuition reimbursement and spending far too long paying for it (contractual requirement to the reimbursement) by staying too long in a past employment position. Still figuring out this thing called life, I hear it is what life is all about though. Been to something like 13 countries, 39 (corrected and counted) states and want to see more. I know that where I am is not where I want to be (geographically) but I have yet to determine where I would call 'home'. A recent trip did offer the most warmth, metaphorically, in a long time. So did Ireland, but rumor has it they're going bankrupt.
I’m really good at
Accidentally pissing people off, intentionally pissing people off, making people laugh (should I have put that first?), cars, motorcycles, photography, and much much more. Wow, I feel like I am writing an ad for my company.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my shirt. I collect shirts that make me laugh, or that I know will have people scratching their heads. After that, I have no clue... I'll have to ask some random stranger on the street and get back to this, yeah.. not likely to happen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies - far too many to list, but just a couple... Inception, The Crow, SAW (all of them), Italian Job, Debbie does (just kidding, not really into that), The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo series (both versions, although Noomi Rapace is super hot in character and I think put on a better performance than Mara Roomey.) Those give you some ideas... I am varied, and have about 50 DVD's and another 50 or so on Hard drive. I am trying to get into reading, not an easy feat for me because it's been quite some time. Starting off with the Potter series knowing I will be able to keep it up. Completed book 2, stupid me didn't pay attention to which was first, and am now on book 1.
The six things I could never do without
Family is a given so it doesnt count.

Getting ink (I only have 2 (so far) and concealable), update...make that 4 5
Photography and art in general (talk to me about this, it's a good starter)
my small but loyal circle of friends
music (another good starter)
nice restaurants
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Taking over the world. (it's a reference to Pinky and The Brain)
Whatever the flavor of the day is. Usually work and then planning for whatever upcoming events are in the works with friends family etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either chilling or hanging with friends. Trying to get myself 'into' reading, never was a big reader, but I've noticed my brain functionality suffering atrophy and drool starting to dribble out of the side of my mouth at times.

With the weather getting warmer now, I've begun setting up my darkroom again so ill be spending nights in the dark making art.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll have to ask to see where I go, I don't have a 'game plan' or 'agenda'
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Basically I'd be willing to meet anyone for friends, for more than that we'd need to be friends first, and then see about compatibility. Lying, cheating, promiscuity, lack of morals and values, those are the things that usually either slam the brakes on, or press the self-destruct button. Like I said in my opening paragraph, no need to BS, if the truth hurts before things even get going, then no need to get going at all.