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29 M Durham, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:47am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I've never lived anywhere longer than five years, and I've got the muddled accent and a sense of style that can only be described as, "huh." I spend a lot of time driving around Durham to fix computers, at Sams Bottleshop finding new beers, or taking naps at any time of day.

I moved to North Carolina to live with my life long friend, and I really like it here excepting the pollen blizzards and corresponding buzzing thunderclouds of bees, wasps, and cadbury-egg-sized-beetles-that-seem-mostly-harmless.

This weekend I'm adopting a kitty and naming it Rachet or Walt Whiskers, depending on its personality, or pre-existing name. Then I will spoil the crap out of him.
What I’m doing with my life
For a long time I kept making really stupid decisions for love, misguided career attempts, and poorly planned transplants. Now I work in a field I really enjoy, pay off debts from an overspent youth, and watch the sunset from the porch. Arriving in Durham has been among the best decisions I've ever made.
I’m really good at
Napping, studying, writing emails, and thinking about kitty cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
Stupid glasses, infectious charm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like everything too much. Here's what I've liked most recently:

Last few books:
Vampires in the Lemon Grove, Karen Russell
Cosmos, Carl Sagan
John Dies at the End, David Wong
Perdido Street Station, China Mieville
Baron in the Trees, Italo Calvino

Last few things I learned how to cook:
Butter chicken
Black bean soup
Pulled pork

Last few albums on in my car:
Float, Aesop Rock
A River Ain't Too Much to Love, Smog
College Dropout, Kanye West
All Day, Girl Talk

Last few movies in Operation First-Thing-On-Netflix:
Iron Sky
The Conspiracy
Old Boy
Ip Man
Mortal Kombat: Annihilation. (This one sucked hard.)
The six things I could never do without
Crockpot, coffeemaker, laptop
Insurance, passport, time to daydream.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Puns. For every stupid dad-joke I make, there are four or five that were lined up behind that. How I will decide on a name for my cat, and where I will put its litter box or find the time to train it to use the toilet. Virtual machines and hardware, whose effortless creation and destruction make me feel not unlike a wizard. Sloths, and how evolution seemed to appoint a dignitary species especially for naps. Where to find tandoori masala, and reminding myself that I probably shouldn't buy the 12 spices I need to make the one spice I want. Slow cooking and what'll be for dinner tomorrow afternoon.

Time; there's enough of it for everything unless you've got a wicked blog habit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Seeing movies, talking about beers, arguing whether you turn into or onto a street, that sort of thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was young enough to be forgiven but more than old enough to know better, I definitely confused Sri Lanka and Shangri-La all the time.

Not to brag or anything, but I've definitely completed 4th grade math on Khan Academy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like overly long responses and jokes that are really stupid.

You believe in spirit animals.