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29 M Durham, NC

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A man, a cat, and a computer.

I moved to Durham this year to work in IT, and ended up doing that very thing all over the city. I talk with interesting people with machines broken in fascinating ways, then come home to teach my cat what can and can't be bitten.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
For a long time I kept making really stupid decisions for love, misguided career attempts, and poorly planned transplants. Now I work in a field I really enjoy, pay off debts from an overspent youth, and watch the sunset from the porch. Arriving in Durham has been among the best decisions I've ever made.

These days, I'm studying unix, writing, rep grinding, and saving for a bicycle.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Napping, studying, writing emails, and thinking about kitty cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Stupid glasses, infectious charm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like everything too much. Here's what I've liked most recently:

Last few books:
Vampires in the Lemon Grove, Karen Russell
Cosmos, Carl Sagan
John Dies at the End, David Wong
Perdido Street Station, China Mieville
Baron in the Trees, Italo Calvino

Last few things I learned how to cook:
Butter chicken
Black bean soup
Pulled pork

Last few albums on in my car:
Float, Aesop Rock
A River Ain't Too Much to Love, Smog
College Dropout, Kanye West
All Day, Girl Talk

Last few movies in Operation First-Thing-On-Netflix:
Reservoir Dogs
Flying Swords at Dragons Gate
Muay Thai Fighter
Ninja 2
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Crockpot, coffeemaker, laptop
Insurance, passport, time to daydream.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Puns. For every stupid dad-joke I make, there are four or five that were lined up behind that. How I will keep my kitty from escaping whenever the front door opens. Cleaning up wiring closets, and hating the good folks at Conduit Search. Sloths, and how evolution seemed to appoint a dignitary species especially for naps. Slow cooking and what'll be for dinner tomorrow afternoon.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Netflix, or the sunset. Porch beers and disco naps.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was young enough to be forgiven but more than old enough to know better, I definitely confused Sri Lanka and Shangri-La all the time.

Not to brag or anything, but I've completed 4th grade math on Khan Academy.
You should message me if
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You like overly long responses and jokes that are really stupid.

You believe in spirit animals.