Arguing is not a dirty word in my mind. Taking a look at things from differing and multiple perspectives is a good thing, and debating, discussing, or arguing age great ways to add to ones perception and understanding. I may take views in a conversation that I don't believe in just to keep the conversation moving and keep myself thinking.
I am often quiet as I tend to not say anything instead of filling the empty air. The silence doesn't need to surround me though, and I enjoy listening. Not that I don't zone out from time to time.
I play board games most weeks with my friends. Gaelic football ended recently and am thinking about taking up dodge-ball over the winter.
Movies: Pixar movies, the Marvel Cinematic Universe, Scott Pilgrim vs. the World, Kick-Ass, Eternal Sunshine of a spotless mind, Juno, Brother where art thou, Star Wars, The LEGO Movie, Pacific Rim, and many more.
Shows: Game of Thrones, RWBY, Firefly, Star Trek: TNG, New Girl, How I met Your Mother, Adventure Time, Young Justice, Transformers Prime, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angle, Big Bang Theory, and Survivor.
Music: Alt rock I guess mostly I just listen to whatever is on 89.3 the current. No More kings, Bright Eye's, Modest Mouse.
Food: I like meat dishes and baked goods that are of high quality. I do a lot of my own cooking and buy from co-ops as much as I can to get local ingredients. I also don't do fast food and can be picky with restaurants.
Video Games: Baldur's Gate II: Shadows of Amn, The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time, Dragon Age, Mass Effect 1-3, Neverwinter Nights, League of Legends, The Witcher 2, and Xcom: Enemy Unknown (2012), The Walking Dead(Teltail Games).
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