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45 M Tallahassee, FL

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  • Ages 28–58
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Today – 10:57am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I look out for the underdog, and I'm activist, handy, athletic, resourceful, and fairly well-traveled. In the past ten years, I've lived in Kentucky, Vegas, Virginia, Costa Rica, and Florida, chasing my dreams but mostly just running from the law. I get my kicks playing basketball, rock climbing, kayaking, hiking, and fishing/scalloping/hanging on the Gulf.

I'm pretty good with animals and plants, enjoy horseback riding, growing my own food, & working locally to help people figure out sustainable landscaping practices. I got mojo filter and feet down below my knees.

Former jobs include radio DJ, literary translator, a few plant nurseries, landscape construction, worked at KFC one night, union organizer, I was a healer one summer, retail sales, journeyman's apprentice, and I taught at a military college for a year. There're some I'm forgetting.

Oh, and I'm debt-free -- that should be worth something, right? One thing I know -- there will always be a moon over Marin.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a writer who teaches college, working on book 2, sometimes translating Spanish literature, otherwise doing what I can to help others.
I’m really good at
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words, wood, weeds, and woods.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are the blue eyes and long fingers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books include critical theory stuff (Eagleton, Jameson, Zizek, Tim Morton), gritty realism like Denis Johnson, the Faulknerian southern fiction tradition (Daniel Woodrell), and beautiful no-frills prose like Robert Olen Butler's. Last novel I didn't finish was "A Visit from the Goon Squad" and Butler's "A Good Scent from a Strange Mountain," actually a collection of short stories. I tend to let one book lead me to another, right now reading through Marilynn Robinson's Gilead, and a good book of short fiction -- The Salmiya Collection -- by an American who teaches in Kuwait.

I always have a big appetite regardless of the cuisine, and I can cook, but I'm a musician and tend to be pickier when it comes to tunes: The Gits, Jello, Dylan, Circle Jerks, Nashville Pussy, 9 Lb. Hammer, Johnny Thunders, G&R, Black Crowes, Mother McRee's Uptown Jug Champions, Billy Joe Shaver, Pixies, DK, DRI, Minor Threat, Leo Kottke, fucking anything Iggy does, JFA, Mark Lanegan, Nick Cave's projects, Michael Jackson ffs, Ween, Ween, Ween, and...Ween. And if you want to argue that the cool prince of reason JS doesn't belong in the triumvirate of German Romanticism, let's go.

I like indie films -- most Hollywood is tripe. Starlet, Frank & the Robot, Fish Tank, The Station Agent are a few faves.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Other than the things that'll keep me biologically alive -- love, touch, conversation, art...guess that's it, 4 things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what ISIL is doing in the Middle East. Troubling stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
making sure I haven't admitted anything too private online.
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is a typical Friday night.
You should message me if
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you're balanced, employed, and smart as hell.