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DisappearHere85

28 / M / Gay / Single

Seattle, Washington

His Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am the oldest of six, the product of a Catholic upbringing, and a reluctant yuppie.

I am secretly sentimental, openly skeptical. Honest almost to a fault. I'll look for friendship here as eagerly as I search for a relationship.

I was a lifelong Chicagoan until recently. I grew up in the Southwest Suburbs, went to school in Evanston, lived in the city, and moved back to Evanston for grad school.

Recently graduated, I moved to Seattle for work this past summer. I interned in Seattle and fell in love with the Northwest. I'm looking for an eager tour guide to deepen my love for the city.

I think my match is someone level-headed but quirky. Right now, I'm hoping for someone different, looking for a catch who's smart, ambitious, a talker, and not afraid to laugh at himself and everything around him at the same time. If you can match my sense of dark, dry, slightly offbeat sense of humor, we're golden.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working for a large technology company as a product manager. As my mom would say, you get three guesses and the first two don't count.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue-grey eyes, what I hope is an endearing form of awkwardness, and my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
These are a few of my favorite things: 30 Rock, sushi, movies and drinks with a twist, people watching, nerds, runner's high, brewing beer at home, gadgetry, economics, Chicago in the summer, writing, grilling dinner, and the color green.
The six things I could never do without
1. List making, seriously
2. Craft beers or red wine, in that order, if I have to pick one
3. My three closest friends, who now live in Chicago and NYC
4. String cheese!
5. Satisfying my curiosity immediately via the Internet
6. Broken-in running shoes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. Where the next five years will take me
2. Wordplay; language; grammar; punctuation and syntax
3. My family, now that I am (sometimes to my relief) very far away
4. Would Tina Fey consider being a surrogate?
5. I've never seen this before on a menu, and I don't know what it is. But it is delicious.
On a typical Friday night I am
Searching out Seattle for new restaurants and / or bars - right now most of them are new! I also love cooking and hope to host many potlucks / dinners / BBQs soon. An atypical Friday night would be a concert in town, but I'm looking to change that.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating