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Dispelwolf

23 / M / straight / Single

New York, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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I am cautious, but loyal, and intelligent.

My Self-Summary

Dedicated and honest, my friends value me for being the person they can always talk to. I live to find my passions, for the ones I love, and to have a good life. Nerd, artist, wanderer. I am made of music and stop to smell the flowers. Strangely humored, serious to a fault, sculptor of words. Figuring it all out one day at a time.

I'm also basically a tech nerd unspiring to be a starving artist. Figure that one out.

What I’m doing with my life

Ever the New Yorker, I'm finding my place in this city. My life is in animation and film, my mind wanders to sciences, philosophy, mathematics, writing, culture, language, and music. I have a lot of goals to pursue and with any luck I'll meet a tenth of them.

For now, I'll draw, write, work, and carve out a place for myself so I can eventually turn fantasy to reality. And sometimes I'll take a few days to be a gamer or obsess over media.

I’m really good at

Anything with a computer chip in it, reading and writing, 3D art, math, playing the piano by ear, visual effects, film editing, living a little zen, photography, sports if I kept up with them, gaming, finding obscure things, staying awake for days if I need to, getting my sleep when I want it, keeping secrets, keeping what's in my head to myself, reading people, being honest, judging character.

The first things people usually notice about me

People notice I am guarded and stone-faced. The best listener and the worst sharer. It's obvious that I think very hard about everything. Hard to "get". Self-conscious.

Let me know what you see, I don't have many opinions to go off of here.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Indian, Asian, Spicy

Alternative, Celtic, Classical, Electronic, Game Remix, Jazz, Orchestral, Punk, Rock, Soundtracks

All-American Rejects, Black Mages, Cartel, Chrono Symphonic, Frou Frou, Ichiko Hashimoto, Keane, Les Misérables, Nobuo Uematsu, OCRemix, Relient K, Switchfoot, Tchaikovsky, The Nylons, The Pillows, The Strokes, Thieves of Fate, Voices of the Lifestream, We The Kings, Yasunori Mitsuda, Yoko Kanno

CSI, Daily Show, Cowboy Bebop, FLCL, Fullmetal Alchemist, Futurama, Ghost in the Shell, House, Law&Order, Numb3rs, RahXephon, Read or Die, Samurai 7, Samurai Champloo, Samurai Jack, Scrubs, Trigun, Wolf's Rain

Amelié, Army of Darkness, Back to the Future, Bourne, Hero, Incredibles, Indiana Jones, Iron Man, Lord of the Rings, Monsters Inc, Monty Python & The Holy Grail, Nausica, Princess Mononoke, Ratatouille, Read or Die, Steamboy, The Count of Monte-Cristo, The Girl Who Leapt Through Time, The Iron Giant, The Princess Bride, To Live, V for Vendetta, Up, Wall-E

Calvin & Hobbes, Gödel Escher Bach: An Eternal Golden Braid, Outliers, The Code Book

The six things I could never do without

My five senses and time machine.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Family, friends, what to do next, how I'm going to do ___, whatever I'm looking forward to, how to live my life a little better, how to better be who I want to be, finances, what I'm going to learn next.

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My sense of brevity prefers that my profile be short, but OKC has a notion that a complete profile is 1000 words long. So I'll take a chunk of text and dedicate it to a little philosophy.

Too few of us think for ourselves, myself included. 90% of the profiles I happen across could have been copied and pasted from one to the other, after messing with a few adjectives and verbs. That depresses me. Let's get a bit of personal discussion in there, hmm? Are you actually the sum of the foods you eat, movies you enjoy, and the fact that you are a family-person? At least I know what type of person I'm coming across when I run into the profile of a super-bouncy Catholic, an irresponsibly sex-charged college-girl or the tiny cuddle-craving shy girl. Do you have any aspirations? If not, what drives your life? What do you think about the role of money in our lives? How do you identify with a culture, if you have one? Name one event that made you who you are, if it's not too private. How do you feel about art or economy, what do you fear?

Okay, it's just a dating site. It's silly to share your life story. But do try to step out of the copy-paste zone, would you? It's kind of hard to find you. (Whoever you are.)

On a typical Friday night I am

Already starting my project for the weekend! Or like any other day really.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll keep the private things reserved for those who earn my trust or come across them like any other friend. As you can see, that thing at the bottom about me being trusting is full of shit.

You should message me if

I interest you, think you'd interest me, or on your own whim really!

I prefer messages to chats. And it helps if you've got something more than "Hi there, teehee". (See rant above)

I should fairly note that I despise the smell of smoke and think less of those of you who produce it.