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34 • M • London, UK
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 24–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Today – 1:33pm
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body Type
- Strictly vegetarian
- Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Relationship Status
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
When I'm not doing that, I like to shout and play a banjo or a synthesiser, which sometimes involves spending my days standing around in an airless room with other young men who like shouting and playing musical instruments, some of whom also have impressive facial hair. Sometimes I also get involved in some troublemaking and political art projects, but that all seems a bit po-faced and serious to talk about here. Although 'political art project' is a pretty fancy phrase for 'shutting down a power station while dressed as a pirate'. I suppose politics are pretty important to me, but I grew out of being ranty about it when I was a teenager so I won't go quoting Emma Goldman at you. Probably.
I'm vegetarian, and used to be vegan. I consider myself a connoisseur of the fake meat products of the world.
I read all day for work, so I've kind of fallen out of the habit of reading novels for fun (suggestions welcome!). But my favourite novel is Q by Luther Blissett, closely followed by some Octave Mirbeau. My favourite poet is Raoul Vaneigem.
I like music that's quite noisy, whether that's shouty guitars or buzzing noises made by machines with blinky lights. My computer says recently I'm listening a lot to Blackbird Raum, RVIVR, Actress, Teeth of the Sea, Tom Waits, You Love Her Cos She's Dead, Eagulls and Christoph de Babalon.
This panel is not inviting me to list my favourite videogames, but that's probably for the best. I did once build my own 4-player MAME arcade cabinet, but I sort of lost it. And I've somehow managed to turn my electronic compulsions into being mildly healthy by getting addicted to 'Zombies, Run!' Now I'm one of those awful people who goes running and goes to the gym and stuff, but it's boring to talk about it and I am really only doing it because I'm pretending to be chased by the undead. I am a grown up.
Also, I cried at the end of Robocop.
...You have a dog I can pet.
...You can teach me a new dance. This does include dances which you just made up, but it helps if they have a good name, like 'the wily mincer' or 'the reverse dervish.'
...You like DIY punk rock or noisy electronic music and need a gig buddy.
I'm in an open relationship, but I'm not super-intense or serious enough to call it polyamory. GGG and kink-friendly, so you know, massive perverts welcome. I'm not looking for either cold random hookups or lifelong romantic entanglement, so much as dating and flirting with a new friend who is equal parts smart and ridiculous and likes to talk nonsense, drink whisky and get into trouble. It will probably help if you like adventures and are a bit inappropriate.
So, er... yeah. Smart new friends are as welcome as filthy-minded debauched adventurers. Smart new friends who are secretly also filthy-minded debauched adventures, please go straight to the front of the queue, where that slightly dandyish man waving his hands enthusiastically will stamp your ticket.
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