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30 Richmond, VA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:08pm
Black, Native American, Hispanic / Latin
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Has a kid
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm 100% unapologetically myself. I'm the kinda girl who's comfortable wearing high heels and chuck taylors. A writer, a musician and a singer. I can be outgoing but really I'm more of a charismatic introvert. I'm an empathetic lover of life with a super loud laugh that gets people going. I’ve manage to hold on to an uninhibited sense of wonder. I like to look back at things and realize something I never noticed or understand/question everything I thought I knew.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a manager at a residential treatment facility for youth. I love my job and couldn't imagine myself doing anything else. I'm challenged and inspired everyday. The fact that I have the best co-workers ever doesn't hurt.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making up songs about whatever I might be doing at the moment. Think working at the car wash but more like "walking to the kitchen".

Picking up on the subtle things other people miss and making jokes about them that no one gets.

Accidentally throwing out verbal zingers, then feeling really bad or not.

Crazy eyebrow tricks.

On the flip side, I suck at pool. I mean, it may be the thing I do worst. No one can ever teach me to get better because I'm left-handed and I get all confused when they try.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
HUGE smile. Big sunglasses, crazy curly hair that can't be controlled, and my voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ugh! Sooo many. My favorite book is Still Life with Woodpecker (If you know it, you get super mega bonus points). Kurt Vonnegut, Chuck Palahniuk, Bukowski, Tom Robbins, Ursula LeGuin, Bruce Perry, Franz Kafka, Faulkner, James Baldwin, ee Cummings, Gogol and many more. I love any books that are intellectually stimulating and challenge me a bit. I'm also a fan of social/cultural history/critique.

Most of the tv I watch is on netflix honestly.

Music and food are all over the map. I love classic rock and Motown. I also have a thing for 90's music, I'm a pianist so I can get down with some classical at times, love jazz and am guilty of enjoying the occasional top 40 pop song. Nina Simone may be my favorite artist. I also like bands like Fink, The Avett Brothers, Lord Huron, Jason Isbell, The head and the heart, Sly and the Family Stone, Tom Waits, The Lone Bellow, Johnnyswim, Bhi Bhiman...Ok I have to stop before this this out of control.

As for food the first thing that comes to mind is sushi, Middle eastern food(Nora's Lebanese anyone?) and I'm a huge fan of the grilled cheese sandwich.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
white chocolate m&m's
my shades
coconut oil
the beach
Summer dresses
Laughing until I can't breathe
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Interesting puns, the human brain and its complexities, cognition, social justice, how to make a positive impact on my little part of the world, pirates vs. ninjas and what to do with the crazy stuff I got in my CSA this week like romanesco and kohlrabi.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Now that the weather is nice I'm probably back-yarding or front-porching with friends. Good beer and side-splitting laughter are generally preset.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I get home from work, I immediately take my pants off, blast music and dance. No matter what.
You should message me if
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If you're brave enough to be yourself and you think we could come together and create a supernova of awesomeness that would consume the universe. I don't know. I'm not judgmental, and I don't have any expectations. I just like cool people. So you should message me if you're cool.