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Divergal

53 F Toronto, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 5
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hmmm... I just got a message calling me "classy, youthful and charming". Too bad it looks like it's from one of the scam artists on this system! I'll take the description though...

If you're reading this and you like jazz and theatre, for heaven's sakes contact me. I go to way too many plays and concerts alone! And although I would like a partner, more friends are good too (even straight women friends).

I'm good at being single, but better at being in love. I think love is a verb -- something you choose to do. That way it lasts past initial infatuation.

I like smart people, good conversations, warmth and honesty. It's nice if you like cats, because I'm kind of attached to mine. I don't have any kids, and don't plan to try conceiving at this point in my life. I might be willing to do the step mom thing, with the right partner, but ONLY if your kids are REALLY comfortable with you dating. I'm not interested in being the transition woman -- I'd rather not take on other people's bad feeling about YOUR divorce, which after all was not my fault!

In the last few years I have spent 3 weeks in northern France, 4 weeks in Italy, and a couple of weeks in Budapest and Saltzburg. I've also gone diving in the Bahamas, to Barcelona and the Canary Islands. Planning my next trip, this time to Greece. If you want to join me, you should contact me now! Next year -- where would you like to go? I've been to 25 counties, and I'm not through yet.However, as much as I value travel and would LOVE to find someone to travel with, travel is still a pretty small part of my life. Maybe two or three weeks a year. So how we get along here in Toronto matters even more.

I recently completed my second Masters degree, this time in Counselling Psychology.

I am smart, kind, and loving. And a good cook, so I've been told. Also good at some other things...
What I’m doing with my life
I have retrained as a counsellor (MACP), so now I make my living with a combination of counselling and writing. My paying work used to involve writing. We are in a massive change involving all advertising and media (death of traditional print media, loss of ad revenue, related death of most well-paying journalism jobs), so it's good to have more than one skill. Thank goddess I already bought my house!
I’m really good at
cooking
singing
writing
being affectionate and open
The first things people usually notice about me
my very pleasant voice
my outgoing and open nature
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love almost all quality fiction and non-fiction. Love most plays, much jazz, many ethnic foods. Mostly like all things cultural and sensual.
The six things I could never do without
books
travel
friends
good food
music I enjoy (female jazz vocalists, for example)
sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how I can further optimize my life

how I can help others and myself at the same time

how much I would like someone to team up with so we both win
On a typical Friday night I am
probably out with a friend
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are sincere, emotionally available and look for long term friends, not hit and run encounters.