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30 Winston-Salem, NC Man


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  • Ages 26–35
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Last online
Today – 5:46pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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INFP: introverted, intuitive, feeling, perceiving

"You're only given a little spark of madness, and if you lose're nothin."

I'm an idealist at my core, hence the INFP, but I can come off as a bit of a cynic... but I've been thinking a lot lately about this quote: "You sit in such judgment of the world. How do you expect to ever be a part of it?"

Some other quote that have caught my attention:

"Maybe your soulmate is the one who forces your soul to grow the most?"

"Love isn’t something you feel, it’s something you do. If the person you’re with doesn’t want it, do yourself a favor and save it for someone who does."

"My passionate sense of social justice and social responsibility has always contrasted oddly with my pronounced lack of need for direct contact with other human beings and human communities. I am truly a 'lone traveler' and have never belonged to my country, my home, my friends, or even my immediate family, with my whole heart; in the face of all these ties, I have never lost a sense of distance and a need for solitude."

"Introversion is my greatest strength. I have such a strong inner life that I’m never bored and only occasionally lonely. No matter what mayhem is happening around me, I know I can always turn inward.” - Susan Cain
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in higher education. That said, life is a journey and there are many paths, so who knows what I'll be doing in the future?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Art, which, for me, is more a way of life or an addiction, something I cannot live without. Something I must do.

I enjoy deep, abstract, critical, friendly, social, political type conversations.

Running, my escape.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am not sure what people notice at first, but it does not take long before they will notice that I am very introverted, abstract, friendly, positively critical, humorous, somewhat of a conversationalist, compassionate, caring...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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How could I ever list them all? I will list a sample...

Books: All time favorite, F Scott Fitzgerald's The Great Gatsby; Nick Hornby, A Long Way Down; Kurt Vonnegut, Cat's Cradle; Anything educational (sociology, psychology, anthropology); Hunger Games series; Divergent; JRR Tolkien, Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit; Bill Bryson, A Short History of Nearly Everything, A Walk in the Woods; Edward Rutherfurd, New York; Jonathan Lethem, Chronic City; Manhattan Transfer; Stieg Larsson; Edgar Allen Poe; Ralph Waldo Emerson; Dreiser; J Krishnamurti; Eckhart Tolle; Robert Kegan; Donna Tartt, The Secret History; James Frey, A Million Little Pieces, Bright Shiny Morning; Into the Wild.

Movies: Anything once... A few favorites include: Anything with Johnny Depp, Bill Murray, Jim Carrey or Will Smith. Anything by Tim Burton, Wes Anderson, P. T. Anderson, Quentin Tarantino, Stanley Kubrick, the Coen brothers, or Charlie Kaufman. The Majestic, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Young Adult, Alien, Aliens, 2012, Day After Tomorrow, Hunger Games, The Great Gatsby, Into the Wild, Moonrise Kingdom, the Master, Django Unchanged, Lincoln, Magnolia, Pulp Fiction, 2001, A Clockwork Orange, Lost in Translation, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Big Lebowski, Dumb and Dumber, Jurassic Park, Ghostbusters I and II, Gremlins, a lot of 80s flicks...

TV Shows: Six Feet Under, 80s and 90s sitcoms, Cheers, Fraiser Seinfeld, Roseanne, etc., Game of Thrones, The Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Anything by Ryan Murphy: nip/tuck, The New Normal, American Horror Story, New Girl...

Music: Most anything Punk, Motown, Rock, Indie, Musicals, some rap. Marilyn Manson, Nirvana, GaGa, Brand New, Michael Jackson, the Killers, David Bowie, Live, when I'm in Nashville, any country, Tupac, Marshall Mathers, this list could be much, much longer..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm not going to answer this question..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life on earth and throughout space and time..
My next move..
My art..
The ocean..
Where I'd like to travel..
How much time I have left..
What I can do to drastically change the course of humanity..
Why so many people are so bad to one another so often..
Things like that..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing is really typical in my life, you could find me doing just about anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Maybe someday..
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