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DivineLadyKay

39 / F / straight / Single

Los Angeles, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am cerebral, sensual, and grounded.

My Self-Summary

Just a girl looking for a boy. The right boy. No, you don't complete me. But we will have fun together. I'm intelligent, thoughtful, a bit goofy and a risk-taker. I have travelled alone in Europe and Mexico. Love Parisian architecture, bread and cheese and steak tartar not so much. Grew up in the Midwest. College in the big Apple. I took a big bite outta that city.

Now, in LA. I'm the creative entrepreneurial nymph type.

I love really smart men. Not just book smart, and educated, but that kinda guy who makes good decisions from his gut. When he says "it's" just around the corner, "it's" actually just around the corner and you won't have me wandering aimlessly around following you. You have the wisdom to stop and ask for directions. If you're that guy, whereever you lead, I'll follow. Bonus points for a man with a five-year plan.

Yeah I'm a strong woman. I love stronger men.
Looking for something real. Something deep and abiding. Kismet. Synergy. Otherwordly.
Still optimistic about love. Still expecting to experience something spectacular.

Please have enough confidence to send email and not a woo.
Just put it out there. Boldness will be rewarded.

What I’m doing with my life

expanding my consciousness through meditation.
pursuing my business goals.
seeking as much joy and pleasure as possible.
writing the great American novel
figuring out how i can leave this world in a better state than i found it.
Trying to build a meaningful life with love and family

I’m really good at

communication. punctuation. writing. massage. listening. feedback. laughing out loud. showing enthusiasm. summersalts. conversation. seeing the big picture. making salmon cakes, and team assists.

The first things people usually notice about me

my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

right now, Eat Pray Love, Million Little Pieces
Science of Mind -Ernest Holmes
Harold and Maude, Towel head
Indian, Vegetarian, Asian/Thai
A good burger every now and then
Neo Soul, pop rock, hip hop, jazz, reggae and movie soundtracks

The six things I could never do without

a man's love
grace
self love
pen and pad
laughter
music

bonus:
affection
purpose

I spend a lot of time thinking about

why my belly button is an innie instead of an outtie
existential questions
how to get what i want out of this go around in life
where to find the 'good' men in LA who want a meaningful relationship? (maybe in NYC?)

On a typical Friday night I am

dinner w/ someone
writing
watching a movie
working online
taking a bubble bath

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i've taken a twirl on the pole.

You should message me if

You:
-think sending a 'woo' is lame
-seek to experience real love
-love to laugh
-are a man of your word
-have a plan for your life
-want someone who challenges you in a GOOD way.
-live in Southern California
-were not born in the 80s or 50s
-don't live with your momma
-you're willing to let go of that "soul patch"
-you don't take me (or yourself) too seriously
-you think I'm cute