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22 M Matawan, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Sep 18
White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hiya, my name is Ky. I identify as queer. I'm not a man but it makes more sense to list myself as one on this site because I'd really rather not pop up as a match for straight men. Femme bby in a boy body. I like to play chess and billiards, but I'm not very good at either. I really really like taking my clothes off at parties and dancing in my underwear, other people get a kick out of it too.
What I’m doing with my life
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I do performance art. I write. I make rad outfits (let me tie a sweet harness on you!). I go to school (philosophy major). I cook tasty food. I used to sing in a queercore band and I play bass if anyone wants to make some noise! I queer gender. I fart and blame it on other people. I make good mixed drinks. I massage anyone who asks me to and some people who don't. I slow dance with your dog.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Laverne Cox dancing to Beyonce at the VMAs.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My bridge piercing and my faggy voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Right now I'm reading Narcissus and Goldmund by Hermann Hesse.
The last book I read was Regarding the Pain of Others by Susan Sontag.
Fiction: Elfriede Jelinek, William S. Burroughs, Kathy Acker, Dennis Cooper, James Baldwin, Gore Vidal (kinda), E. M. Forster.
Non-Fiction: Michel Foucault, J. Jack Halberstam, David Halperin, bell hooks.

Derek Jarman, Pier Paolo Pasolini, Igmar Bergman. I really really really dislike Gaspar Noe.

King of the Hill

I like Psychic TV(I have a psychic cross tattoo), Xiu Xiu, Swans, Diamanda Galas, Nina Simone, Crass, Plastic Ono Band, This Mortal Coil, Coil, Antischism, Dystopia, Sunn O))), Death in June, Skullflower.

Tomato sandwich on German black bread, endive salad with goat cheese and coconut water with a lime wedge. Freshly ground black pepper is one of my passions.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My five fingers and palm for face slapping.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Socially imposed masculinity and how to destroy it. S.C.U.M. FOR LIFE!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Corrupting the young men of Athens.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I'm sad I read Frank O'Hara and Anne Sexton to my mom.
Also, I spell like a 5th grader.
You should message me if
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You're a sassy fag, you look like Kathy Acker, or you want to buy my used undies.