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40 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm eclectic. Want some?

Coming next is the obligatory list of things I like to do, but what defines me isn't my unusual hobbies or outlandish garb - it's transparent communication, paired with an intense zest for life!

OK, so on with the list...I really enjoy costuming, acroyoga, hosting parties, seeking new experiences, playing games of all sorts, thrift store shopping, rock climbing, fire spinning, and candid communication with close friends. I hang with Burning Man folks occasionally. I perform with an improv comedy troupe, and also love watching improv shows. Most recently, I've retired from my career as a video game developer and am spending my days training for a variety of circus arts instead of sitting in front of a computer. That includes gymnastics, aerials, trapeze, slackline, trampoline, and my first circus love, acroyoga! You'll also find me out dancing occasionally when the mood strikes, and doing outdoorsy things when the weather is fair. I balance my active lifestyle by ordering girlie cocktails with umbrellas and sugared rims.

I say what I'll do, and I do what I say I'll do. Drama is uninvited.
People are complex. An open mind goes a long way with me.
There's a sarcophagus in my living room.
I favor acceleration over velocity.

Passion for travel? Sure, I'm in!

You should be confident in yourself and serious about dating. Emotionally intelligent, and willing to share vulnerability. While I am blessed with many wonderful friends in my life, I am seeking someone who stands head and shoulders above the crowd to share my life with.
What I’m doing with my life
I've spent most of my adult life creating video games for a living. I've recently exited that career and have the luxury of pursuing my own interests.

I'm a seeker of experiences, and my life's optimized around creating opportunities for having fun.
I’m really good at
Using my words
Social engineering
Ingesting stupendous amounts of sugar
Creating and wearing loud costumes
Throwing Halloween parties
Coaxing people into trying new things
Keeping a cool head in stressful situations
Giving and receiving massages.
Designing bathrooms. Well, I designed MY bathroom. I think its quirky and spacious and space-efficient and utterly awesome.
The first things people usually notice about me

I appear younger than my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Does anyone really care? Fine...
Music: Tim Minchin is hot on my playlists!
Movies/TV: I like Aaron Sorkin. I usually watch TV series en-masse after the whole season is done...usually combined with working out.
Food/Music: I'm fairly omnivorous on both.
The six things I could never do without
Authentic people who can think for themselves
Doubley-nested parenthesis
My Model M keyboards
Email and my digital calendar
Freedom to form relationships without artificial constraints
Lists containing six things. Especially if they're bulleted.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...recursive questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
There's too much to do for 'typical'...but its usually with dates or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My bar is pretty high. You don't have to fit a specific mold, just be amazing. Take my breath away!
Also, my hair is fun to touch.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...something you've read here motivates you to do so. Or if you really like corn chips. A shared passion for Fritos can go a long way.

I've got my life together, and I'm looking for that in you. I am attracted to confidence, competence, and happiness. You needn't have reached some ultimate destination, but you know which direction you're walking and enjoying the path. Bonus points for fit & athletic!