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41 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here's all you really want to know:
- My path is unorthodox, in intentional and awesome ways.
- My words are intelligent and transparent.
- My mind craves a playful, passionate life...and I'll bring toe curls to someone who joins me in it!
- My socks usually match.

For the sake of completeness, here's all the other jabber...

Costuming, acroyoga, hosting parties, circus arts, seeking new experiences, playing games of all sorts, thrift store shopping, rock climbing, fire spinning, and having candid conversations with close friends. I hang with Burning Man folks occasionally. I perform with an improv comedy troupe, and also enjoy watching improv shows.

In Dec 2013 I retired from my career as a video game developer and now spend my time moving my body in fun ways instead of sitting in front of a computer. That includes gymnastics, aerials, trapeze, slackline, trampoline, and my first circus love, acroyoga! You'll also find me out dancing when the mood strikes, volunteering at events, and doing outdoorsy things when the weather is fair. I balance my active lifestyle and generally healthy eating habits with umbrella-adorned cocktails.

I say what I'll do, and I do what I say I'll do.
There's a sarcophagus in my living room, next to my trapeze and aerial silks.
I favor acceleration over velocity.
People are complex. An open mind goes a long way with me.
Passion for travel? Sure, I'm in!

What I seek:
You should be confident in yourself and serious about dating. Emotionally intelligent, and willing to share vulnerability. While I am blessed with a deep array of wonderful friends, I am searching for someone who stands head and shoulders above the crowd to share my life with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Having exited my tech career, I have the luxury of pursuing my own interests.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using my words
Social engineering
Ingesting stupendous amounts of sugar
Creating and wearing loud costumes
Throwing Halloween parties
Coaxing people into trying new things
Keeping a cool head in stressful situations
Giving and receiving massages.
Designing bathrooms. Well, I designed MY bathroom. I think its quirky and spacious and space-efficient and utterly awesome.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!

I appear younger than my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Does anyone really care? Fine...
Music: Tim Minchin is hot on my playlists!
Movies/TV: I like Aaron Sorkin. I usually watch TV series en-masse after the whole season is done...usually combined with working out.
Food/Music: I'm fairly omnivorous on both.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Authentic people who can think for themselves
Doubley-nested parenthesis
Model M keyboards
Email and my digital calendar
Moving my body
Lists containing six things. Especially if they're bulleted.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...recursive questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's too much to do for 'typical'...but its usually with dates or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair is fun to touch.
You should message me if
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...something you've read here motivates you to do so. Or if you really like corn chips. A shared passion for Fritos can go a long way.

I've got my life together, and I'm looking for that in you. I am attracted to confidence, competence, and happiness. Have passions, share them with me. Bonus points for fit & athletic!

Regarding "Doesn't want kids": I'm a fine uncle, but have no desire to raise a child. If you're mom to a mature teenager a few years from leaving the house, no sweat.