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40 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 4:16pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Coming next is the obligatory list of things I like to do, but what defines me isn't my unusual hobbies or outlandish garb - it's transparent communication, paired with a playful passion to lead an interesting life!

OK, so on with the list...I really enjoy costuming, acroyoga, hosting parties, seeking new experiences, playing games of all sorts, thrift store shopping, rock climbing, fire spinning, and candid communication with close friends. I hang with Burning Man folks occasionally. I perform with an improv comedy troupe, and also love watching improv shows. Most recently, I've retired from my career as a video game developer and am spending my days training for a variety of circus arts instead of sitting in front of a computer. That includes gymnastics, aerials, trapeze, slackline, trampoline, and my first circus love, acroyoga! You'll also find me out dancing occasionally when the mood strikes, volunteering at events, and doing outdoorsy things when the weather is fair. I balance my active lifestyle by ordering cocktails with umbrellas and sugared rims.

I say what I'll do, and I do what I say I'll do. Drama is uninvited.
People are complex. An open mind goes a long way with me.
There's a sarcophagus in my living room.
I favor acceleration over velocity.

Passion for travel? Sure, I'm in!

You should be confident in yourself and serious about dating. Emotionally intelligent, and willing to share vulnerability. While I am blessed with a deep array of wonderful friends, I am seeking someone who stands head and shoulders above the crowd to share my life with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've spent most of my adult life creating video games for a living. I've recently exited that career and have the luxury of pursuing my own interests.

I'm a seeker of experiences, and my life's optimized around creating opportunities for having fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using my words
Social engineering
Ingesting stupendous amounts of sugar
Making your toes curl
Creating and wearing loud costumes
Throwing Halloween parties
Coaxing people into trying new things
Keeping a cool head in stressful situations
Giving and receiving massages.
Designing bathrooms. Well, I designed MY bathroom. I think its quirky and spacious and space-efficient and utterly awesome.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!

I appear younger than my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Does anyone really care? Fine...
Music: Tim Minchin is hot on my playlists!
Movies/TV: I like Aaron Sorkin. I usually watch TV series en-masse after the whole season is done...usually combined with working out.
Food/Music: I'm fairly omnivorous on both.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Authentic people who can think for themselves
Doubley-nested parenthesis
Model M keyboards
Email and my digital calendar
Moving my body
Lists containing six things. Especially if they're bulleted.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...recursive questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's too much to do for 'typical'...but its usually with dates or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My bar is pretty high. You don't have to fit a specific mold, just be amazing. Take my breath away!
Also, my hair is fun to touch.
You should message me if
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...something you've read here motivates you to do so. Or if you really like corn chips. A shared passion for Fritos can go a long way.

I've got my life together, and I'm looking for that in you. I am attracted to confidence, competence, and happiness. You needn't have reached some ultimate destination, but you know which direction you're walking and enjoying the path. Bonus points for fit & athletic!

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