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  • Ages 28-45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Today – 12:56pm
Black, White
Open relationship
5' 10" (1.78m)
Post grad
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)
My self-summary
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"They moved into a place they both could afford.

He found a nightclub he could work at the door.

She had a guitar and she taught him some chords.

The sky...... was.... the limit....."

I was born in Brooklyn, but I've also lived in Paris and Los Angeles. Woodstock has always been my spiritual home, and I spend most of my time there these days.

Baseball was my first love.
I cook with a lot of garlic, listen to a lot of J. S. Bach and Wu Tang, and I will quote Stars Wars and Pulp Fiction ad nauseam.

People think I'm pretty funny. And I think humor is the most telling aspect of a person. Despite my stoic, stone-faced photos, I do love to laugh. And to make people laugh.

My parents thought they made my name up. But, as fate would have it, it is Finnish slang for "sound" or "beat".

I tend to launch into political rants and diatribes, but I am easily pulled from the ledge. I do love a good debate, and I appreciate a skilled sparring partner.

I'd like to be less given to hyperbole. And I'd like to arrive on-time more often.

I am an unabashed mama's boy. My network of friends is a vast, eclectic array of souls, and they are very important to me. But my art is my number one priority. And, although I am an extremely social animal, I will disappear into my creative cave from time to time....

I've been around the world and back. And I've been around the block a few times.... We are all works in progress.

I'd just like to meet someone who's got their own thing goin' on. Someone authentic.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a musician, and a photographer.
I’m really good at
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Determining the interval between two notes. Making bruschetta. Solving the world's problems.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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La Possibilité d'une île (Michel Houellebecq)
The Bear Comes Home (Rafi Zabor)
Top Gear
Later... with Jools Holland
Stories from the City, Stories from the Sea (PJ Harvey)
The W (Wu Tang Clan)
Brandenburg Concerto #3 In G (J.S. Bach)
The chicken liver mousse at Marlow Sons
Woodford Reserve
J.S. Bach
Rachel Maddow
House of Cards
Mad Men
Breaking Bad
Key and Peele
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Inequities and unfairness in the world. Planting trees. Past failures. Music. How much the music biz sucks.
You should message me if
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You're clever, you're beautiful, and/or you play tennis.