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48 M Carmel, IN

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:06pm
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I'm generally not good at self promotion. But here goes... I'm open minded. Live and let live as they say. I'm in shape but mostly because I try to eat right and not because I spend a lot of time working out. (I don't). I have a daughter who is 13. She is smart, cute and sassy. I'm the custodial parent and I have her "week-on - week-off" I'll leave the rest of that for our first date.
I have a reputation for being funny. Which is deserved.
I recently closed on a house in Carmel. I'm trying to get some painting and flooring done before I move in.
What I’m doing with my life
I work and I have additional outside income.
I support myself and my share of my daughter's needs. (to me that is assumed, but after reading some of my matches I'm guessing I need to state it upfront. ) I'm trying to be a good role model for my daughter. More than once I've heard in the past year or so some say something like "daughters marry their "dads"" as in men like their dads. And while, I'm a good Dad, one can always be better at parenting..
I’m really good at
Introducing myself and making people feel comfortable. It doesn't matter if it is a party or a funeral or a networking event. It takes practice but it can be fun.
I'm also really good at fixing almost anything. In a house that is. Never much luck with cars, so I decided to just buy new ones. (Yes I know they lose 1/2 their value when you drive them off the lot but at least they are reliable.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I was told recently that I have big hands..... As far as first impressions go I'm not sure. I've been called skinny, and eloquent, and actually the "nicest guy you'll ever meet" twice. Years apart. Yes it is a direct quote. I actually am a really nice guy. Not a saint, but definitely a nice guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There is a lot I could put here. I'm open to anything in this topic generally. I would recommend strongly "Peace Like a River". It's a book by Leif Enger. It's one of the best books I've ever read. I also have read most, or all, of the books Tony Hillerman and Carl Hiassen wrote. I've been reading the books that have been assigned to my daughter at her school. If you have a child reading The Giver and if you haven't read it, you should.
As far as music goes, the easiest thing might be to mention radio stations. My first choice is NPR (not for music thats just the one I check first). Music stations would be 101.9, 92.3, X103 and 104.5.
Not country really. Except I love Johnny Cash. Other recent books: "the story of Edgar Sawtelle". Great book. Also "the tenderness of wolves". Okay. Not great.
The six things I could never do without
This one is kind of lame. But here goes: family, opportunity, freedom, the bill of rights, change (not an Obama reference, I've realized that I like change, even the scary kind). Ok that's 5. Ummmm... companionship/sex/intimacy. I've learned recently that if you do it right these can all be inextricably tied into one thing...
Okay, here's another: interesting conversation/s.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ensuring a stable future for my daughter. And if I say I believe in God, and I do, am I really "walking the walk?"
On a typical Friday night I am
If I have my daughter that week, than probably watching a movie with her, hopefully after a little walk around the neighborhood. If I'm not with my daughter I'd like to be out trying a new restaurant and/or going to a show or a movie, with a date or friends. I've more recently become interested in going to see live music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Saving this for pillow talk....
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to chat with (online), and then meet for a drink or a cup of coffee, a truly nice guy.