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29 Cardiff, UK Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:02pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of law school
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hi :-) I seem to be in a relationship with my sofa at the moment, but then it is winter so I forgive myself - I fare much better when the weather improves! I'm also more than willing to break up with it for the right girl!

So.. I'm a friendly, moral, well-meaning guy with a reserved passion for life and a couple of insecurities that I suspect a lot of people have but never display outwardly, which, heart-on-sleeve kind of guy that I am, I sometimes do. I warm to people quickly if I like them, deciding quite early-on if I am comfortable in their company. My surname is Bear and I am a fairly docile bloke, though I promise you this doesn't mean I'm some pathetic pushover, I'm just really nice to people I like! I'm thoughtful and opinionated, but loyal and giving; I take genuine happiness from being kind and romantic in return for the same.

I really like animals, both the petting kind and the eating kind, and yes, I am aware many of our planet-sharing friends come under both categories - it's a pain I live with every day: a suffering that only a bacon sandwich can alleviate!
What I’m doing with my life
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In terms of entertainment I look to the usual nerdly stereotypes. I like reading, watching and playing all the standard geek fare, including theatre and museums.

I fund my introvert habits with a great job for a company I'm proud of, and because introvert habits aren't as expensive as, say, cocaine habits, I'm also putting plenty away for a house one day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A sampling of my favourite things and people. Like most folk I could easily make a list a googolplex long!

Books: Disc World series, Middle Earth collection, Daemon/Freedom.

Films: Hunting Party, the various Avengers films, The Amazing Spiderman films, Fearless, Final Fantasy Advent Children, Watchmen, The Dam Busters, About Time.

Theatre: Phantom of the Opera, Pitman Painters, We Will Rock You, Spamalot.

Telly: Fringe, New Tricks, Stargate SG1, Yes Minister/Prime Minister, Ice Road Truckers.

Radio: The News Quiz, Infinite Monkey Cage.

Boffins: David Attenborough, Michael Mosely, Marcus Du Sautoy, Jim Al-Khalili, Richard Dawkins.

Comedians: Adam Hills, Tim Minchin, Stephen Fry, Dara O'Briain, Dave Gorman.

Games: Final Fantasy VII, Xenoblade Chronicles, Ratchet and Clank, Star Craft, Command and Conquer.

Music: Rock, Classical, some Blues like Seasick Steve or Dan Owen, Macklemore.

Food: Steak, lamb, duck, burgers, sushi, cooked veg.. wait, I'm about to list pretty much every food substance in the world here..

Basically, except for a few exceptions, I'm easily pleased :)
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I'm seeking someone of a similar mindset; someone who likes learning, is atheist or agnostic, has respect for their health and well-being but still knows how to enjoy food. Oh, and absolutely must come equipped with their own opinions and a willingness to share them. While this kind of personality is definitely my prime interest, you do get bonus points for being a healthy buxom redhead of around 5' 5" or taller.

If you are interested, please do say something! I promise you I am as afraid of you as you are of me! If you want attention and can't think of anything witty to say, just send something lame or dull or outright batshit insane (hell, just mash the keyboard if you want) - I always read profiles anyway, and it is for this which you will be judged worthy or unworthy! Muahahaha aaahaha .. aaah.. it's not that funny...