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Last online
Today – 9:26am
Pansexual, Queer
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a polyamorous, pansexual, post modern theorist that is addicted to upper education and information.

I am passionate about knowledge and understanding but do not expect to ever find truth.

I paint and get rather involved in figure drawing. I think, perhaps, I've read too much Anaïs Nin (Models and Artists)

I'm often more interested in seemingly irrelevant things... there's much more to be learned from the things no one is watching..

I love hard and honestly and I'm good at it...
This is the link for my primary partner's page:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am reading an anthology of modernism to post modernism, I will never finish this book because it is a portal to another dimension and my corporeal self cannot withstand the elements of the wormhole because I don't have a Tardis.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Discussing (take note I did not say arguing.. I do not like to argue) Post Modern Theory, Conceptual realities..

Deconstructing discourse, reality, myself.. you.

Being ethical.

Brutal honesty.

Drinking bourbon.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My badass hair.
My thick thighs.
That I give no fucks.
That I take no shit.
My slow Cheshire Cat grin.

What you notice depends on You..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors: Michel Foucault, Judith Butler, Jacques Lacan, Bret Easton Ellis, Judith Halberstam, Pablo Neruda, e.e.cummings, Richard Dawkins, Leonard Cohen, Derrida, Anais Nin, Nabakov (but not how you're assuming, he made me utterly insane and that's why I love him), Sylvia Plath, Raold Dahl.

Films: 3, Let The Right One In (Swedish version), Anything by Wes Anderson, Sunshine Of A Spotless Mind, I Heart Huckabees, the Alien(s) films, Harold & Maude, StarTrek films, StarWars (specifically4,5&6), LOtR, CON, Joss Whedon's Cabin In The Woods, Tarantino films, Rodriguez films, George A. Romero, Dario Argento .. I really like horror films, cult, B, exploitation, political, zombie, scifi, etc.... awesome! Guillermo del Toro is my favourite director.. a-maze-ing!

Shows: StarTrek NextGen, StarTrek Voyager, Firefly, American Horror Story, Big Bang Theory, Family Guy, The L Word, Dexter, Orange Is The New Black, Grace & Frankie.

Food: Chocolate, banana, peanutbutter milkshakes from Watercourse Foods, The Sardou breakfast at City O' City, Nachos with Jackfruit from Tasty Harmony & The White Trash Hash from Sputnik's, all the deliciousness at Beet Box Vegan Bakery.... Whiskey, Bourbon and Scotch.

Music: Jeff Buckley, Leonard Cohen, Tom Waits, Cat Power, Elliott Smith, Radiohead, Portishead, Massive Attack, The Deftones, Smashing
Pumpkins, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Belle & Sebastian, Rage Against The Machine, NIN, Fiona Apple, Tipper.
Have you heard Sky Giant by Transglobal Underground? You should, with head phones..alone with your eyes closed.. it's that good.

My favourite X-Men is Gambit. I don't care that his power is a little cheesy. The heart wants what the heart wants. Wolverine is a cheat code! CHEATCODE!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This question isn't actually about what we could never do without, because then all answers would be clean air, water, sleep, sunlight, food, shelter and probably a 7th, communication..

I think this question is what things do you greatly value enough to establish in your life and maintain.

The pursuit of interconnectedness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Post Modern Theory.

A world without patriarchy.

Consciousness, philosophically and physically. Everything is a result of chemical processes yet reality is illusory.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, at a show, watching True Blood with my sister, reading, on a date, snuggling in bed, sitting in silence and thinking (I wish more people sat silently to think instead of filling the silence with meaningless noise.. how can you know yourself if you can't be alone with yourself?)

Making sweet sweet love to someone (s)... hopefully.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am in love with myself.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you aren't a bigot and you are a strident feminist that knows how to get down.

And if you're willing to bring me a vegan cupcake.

This little part is for the fellas... I am not interested in nonconsensual nonmonogamy. I don't appreciate traditional aggressive masculinity... I wear my own pants.. don't try to devalue my masculinity.. if you assume I'm interested in fucking you.. go fuck yourself. I might be... but your privileged assumption is pathetic and disgusting.

If the last paragraph made you angry or uncomfortable then don't message me. You've obviously missed why this statement is valid, authentic and important, which is a good indication that it was directed at you. Therefore, you have absolutely nothing original, interesting or polite to say to me, believe me. Your misogynistic white middle class straight male carbon copies already tried. Save us both some time. Thanks.