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36 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Wants kids
My self-summary
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Hi there, internet stranger. Let's do this.

I'm a North Carolina transplant and while I really love NC, Chapel Hill was starting to feel a little small. Moving to Brooklyn turned out to be a great decision and five years later I'm still pretty enamored with this place. Playing music and exploring the city on a bicycle are two things I really couldn't do without, and I'm really thankful I get to do both very frequently.

I'm not a super macho type of guy, so if you're in to bros you might want to move on to the next profile. Very much in favor of gay rights, feminism, racial tolerance and equality (institutional and individual), etc. You know, one of THOSE types. I also somewhat inexplicably love playing poker and watching pro football / college basketball, especially the UNC Tarheels.

What I’m doing with my life
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For the five years before I moved, I shared a crowded minivan with three other dudes and drummed my way through America and Canada. I'm glad it's over, but would not trade that experience for anything.

Now that I'm in NYC, I work for NYU Shanghai, which is NYU's new campus in China. When I first moved here, I gave up music for almost an entire year, which turned out to be a pretty good decision - I'm playing again all the time, and it feels great. I'm a drummer by trade, but have been playing mostly piano lately. My ultimate goal is to play like and look as cool as Dr. John.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling the truth, playing the drums, piano, and bass guitar, trivia, making white russians, being a loyal friend (I've had the same two best friends since I was eight), being an asshole to other assholes, being your adventure partner, thinking hard about politics and, just to be honest, thinking hard about pop culture.

Here's some other stuff that both me AND most frat boys are good at: shooting pool, texas hold'em (notable exception to truth telling), and stock trading.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a smiler.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A type of food I like: Thai
A movie I like: The Empire Strikes Back
A band I like: The Pixies
A TV show I like: The Walking Dead
A series of books I like: A Song of Ice and Fire. Oh, you like it to? Well then allow me to talk at you for the next three hours.

Don't you wish someone would make a TV show about the two competing sides of your personality? Someone actually did for me, it's called 'Freaks and Geeks'!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
All of the seven deadly sins except wrath. I can live without wrath in my life. OK, here's a less cheeky response:

musical instruments
the collected works of Ray Bradbury
good whiskey
bicycle (how very Brooklyn)
adventures lasting all day that were planned less than an hour before being put in to action
that last one counts twice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The inane, minute differences between the Game of Thrones books and TV series.

All the negativity! Can we just be OK with the fact that we're all on a dating site!?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Building a fort out of couch cushions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wear fancy clothes for my job, but I sometimes think I'm going to walk in to work one day and someone will expose me as a tattooed punk rocker / hippie who has no business being there.
You should message me if
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You want to have a bike adventure.

I find women much sexier covered in grease fixing a bike than dolled up in a cocktail dress. Tomboys are encouraged to apply!