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34 Tucson, AZ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:38am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Strictly other
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Doesn’t have kids
English (Okay), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You know I could try to tell you who I think I am but what I've learned is that no one ever sees you the way you see yourself.

As I'm getting older I've been very, very lucky and I've been able to keep my young state of mind while gradually maturing. I take responsibility and honesty very seriously. I try to laugh and make other people laugh.

I want to find someone who can sit together and read. Who enjoys traveling and being outdoors. But also someone who can throw back a beer or a glass of wine and appreciate a fine cigar over good conversation.

I want to fall in love.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a lot. Less so right now because the company I work for is related to oil and natural gas drilling.

Other than that right now i'm trying to lose weight.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a great memory (except for names... Horrible with names...)

Also, I am a rather large person...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Riddle master of Hed series. The Kingkiller Chronicals. Alfred Bester... Honestly, that would be good stuff for us to talk about at coffee...

I like anime... I am not a child. I have watched a lot... Lot of anime. Ask and I'd love to talk about it.

I also like sci-fi and fantasy, like battle star galactica, Buffy, Stargate, Game of Thrones, etc. ask please. Too many to name.

I love burgers and fries. And I love Italian food with marinara.

I used to be a beer only guy, but recently have started developing a taste in wines.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My iPad
My wonderful, lovely, intelligent Aunt (my winter visitor)
Intelligent conversation

I have to stop here cause really my iPad counts as ten things since it's my library, my movie collection, my music etc...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking a bottle of wine, maybe a beer instead, and possibly smoking a cigar.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Let's be honest here, even though online dating makes the platform more even, men are still pretty much expected to make the first move. I am a really nice guy, and you SHOULD message me if you liked my profile and want to know more about me.