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37 M Baltimore, MD

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Here's the short run down of me:
Dog Dad
Drummer in a cover band (this is a "for fun" band, not a "we wanna pay the bills by playing music" band)
Home owner who has a blueberry garden
Lover of all things (well, almost all things) cars & motorcycles
Not really into watching sports but I can treat it as a social event. (I sit enough. I'd rather be doing something.)
Not 420 friendly
Sometimes as subtle as a bulldozer

I look at life like this: who you are everyday, in your private life, will impress me more than your job (public life) or the stamps on your passport. Okay so you now work at The World Bank because you solved global poverty.....and for fun you torture kittens.'re still a jerk despite your professional life. I like congruence. :-)

A lot of people on here just like to email. I'll probably become a ghost after 4-5 emails unless we actually have a phone conversation. (NO! Text messages don't count!) Maybe meet up if the phone conversation goes well. I'm also going to become a ghost if we exchange emails & you don't ask a question or respond to a question I ask. I'll assume your being polite in responding but not interested. I'm not on here looking for a hook-up. I am looking for something real. Someone that I genuinely look forward to seeing or talking to every day.

.....oh & if you are 5'10" or under, I can pass the 3" heel test. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
I've spent the last bunch of years working as a mechanical designer and going to college part-time. I've recently left the full-time gig so that I can wrap up the education stuff, this year. There is also a charter I want to obtain that consumes a ton of time (it's a Masters degree level of effort) & I want to get the first chunk knocked out as well. The job was dead-end and I want to know what it's like to get up on a Saturday and only have to cut the lawn and take the dog to the dog park. I would like to move into the investment world. Sounds totally different from menchanical design but its not. Too many analysts out there can read financials but don't know squat about the science behind the products companies attempt to use to generate their cash flows.
I’m really good at
Opening Jars
Falling while ice skating.
Falling while skiing
Sense of direction. I've recently added the greater San Diego area to a growing list of places I can navigate, in general, sans electronic devices
Remembering little things
Making banana pancakes - FROM SCRATCH (none of this Bisquick stuff with a banana mashed up in it)
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe my eyes - they are blue. I was told sometimes I have a very stoic facial expression.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books...lately I'd like to say it's CFA Curriculum Vol I: Ethical Standards & Quantitative Methods, but I'd only be saying that to psych myself up. (Yeah, it's just that exciting of a read.) Spare time reading is typically something like WSJ, Dwell, Grassroots or Classic Motorsports, Atomic Ranch - something that I can read in about 15 minutes. I think the last book I actually read was "The Snowball" (biography of Warren Buffett).
Movies...I love action movies like Boondock Saints, and comedies. I'm not so much into The Notebook.
Shows....I don't really watch much TV. In fact, I don't own a DVR!
....and no I am not one of those people who says, "I don't watch TV" and then watches the sh!t on the computer via Netflix. :-P
Music...Beth Hart is one of my favorite singer / songwriters. Rarely do you find someone who sings with as much passion as she does. I tend to gravitate towards music that have things like...key changes, and singers who can actually sing and are not auto-tuned to hell - like Rihanna is.
Food...I would say some sort of Italian dish will always win me over. Maybe Mexican as well. I HATE eggplant. I've had it several times, different ways, and it always turns my stomach. Carrot Cake & Cannolis might be my favorite desserts.
The six things I could never do without
My dog, Scotty - he gives me a reason to laugh nearly every day and a reason to drag my butt outta bed (mainly because I know he has to pee)
Music - and I'm happiest jamming with the guys
A comfy pair of jeans
Dyson Vacuum. Okay. Maybe I could do without it but it really is the benchmark all vacuums should be judged against. And my dog would be happy if I did without it. But that's just because he doesn't like vacuums in general.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much longer do I have to wait for Justin Beiber to transform into Leif Garrett? (Although maybe this is starting to happen....)

Why do I only seem to attract women who are fresh out of relationships or, have been out of one for a while, but still I am the first guy they go on a date with?

If everyone on here thinks their confidence is higher than average, wouldn't that really make everyone's confidence.....average? Perhaps a paradigm shift is in order.

Why do my black socks get holes faster than the blue ones?

How is it that all this social media can make us so socially inept?

Are there really as many guys (on here) with shirtless bathroom selfies as there are girls with pictures at Machu Picchu?
On a typical Friday night I am
Ghost ridin' the whip. Nah actually it's like what it says on a box of puddin: "cook and chill - and baby that's what I do every night, I cook - 'n then I chiiiilll." Saturday night is a little different.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll give two, to make up for the people who are not willing to admit something (and maybe you will too):

Being a good uncle sometimes means sucking it up, grabbing a My Little Pony and playing along because your niece asked you to. Just FYI: Rainbow Dash became Rainbow Slash, lead guitarist of the band Funs N' Roses. But I couldn't play until Rainbow Slash had the feather boa around her neck - because Slash always has a boa around his neck. She was four; she had no idea. But that's the way uncle's roll.

Also, I was once set up on a blind date by a divorce attorney.
If you don't find that ironic and funny as hell, I'm not the guy for you. (Just for clarification - I've been engaged but never married. The divorce attorney just happens to live in my neighborhood.)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're active. I don't expect an 8 mile run to be your thing, but I have run a marathon. Please don't be a couch potato.
Wants kids but does not have them yet. I'm sorry, that's just an experience I'd rather go through with someone else who has never done it before either.
Down to earth
Possesses a little bit of a creative side
You want to meet
You are looking to meet a guy who is not on here just looking for a piece of tail (there's that bulldozer subtly I mentioned. HA!)
You noticed my subtle demonstration of two, to and too which made you giggle.
You want to meet a guy who is not gonna turn you into a football widow in the fall
You are not going to try to test the limits of my tolerance for bullshit. I'll be honest, I question the sincerity & self awareness of the general OKC population. However, I'm sticking this out for a little while longer. Maybe someone will surprise me.

Although not a deal breaker, I am more attracted to women without tattoos. Tattoos are like ballet to me; I don't get the appeal (just being honest).

You understand, I have a dog; he's not going anywhere. I transport dogs for a couple of rescues. To paraphrase someone: Always be suspicious of someone who doesn't like dogs, but always trust a dog who doesn't like someone. There is a LOT of truth to that statement!

You are looking for someone to:
Run / Bike / Hike / ________ with
Tackle projects together - anything from making dinner (cooking for one is boring and I'd much rather cook with someone), landscaping project, or anything in between. I am happiest in the type of relationship where, regularly, there is the ability to step back and say, "We did this together."

That's the basics and I don't think its a tall order. (Its NOT as if I'm saying I only date girls who like orange jello and are between 5'7" and 5'9".) I'm just looking for someone genuine. Everything else we'll sort out.