I'd like to think that I am one of the good guys. I've got goals and working towards them. I have one of the cutest dogs you've ever seen cohabiting with me - in a house, I own. I'm active - I've run two marathons in 2014 and my mountain bike is my friend. For the right girl, I really do feel like I put forth an effort. I feel like I will indeed make you feel like the prettiest girl in the room. I'm putting forth an effort to find something real (read that as, "Not just looking for a piece of ass.") I know at my core, any girl is going to be lucky to have me.
But I can tell you after 2-1/2 years of being on and off here (more on than off), this shit has become brutal. Email after email to girls I think I could click with.....and nothing......
It really takes a toll on your psyche. I've read that the deck is stacked against guys on online dating. I fee like its true. If anyone thinks I'm the kinda guy they'd want to get to know, now's the time. I'm deleting this account in a couple of days.
My hats off to other guys who can stomach it because email after email and no responses, this shit is dragging down my self worth. It's time for me to just give up and maybe meet a girl at a bar my band is playing at.