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47 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
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I grew up running barefoot under apple trees, in my treehouse, and floating down a creek in makeshift rafts. In high school I had long hair and was kind of a gothic existentialist. After college I raced motocross. At one point I quite my job and focused on rock climbing for a few years. Then I started Structural Integration (rolfing). I feel lucky to have work that is so interesting, challenging, creative and rewarding. Twelve years ago I moved to California (from Boulder, CO), and started surfing. Ten years ago I got into a spiritual practice that has been most interesting, and has made me grow and experience things I wouldn't have previously thought possible.
Now I am living by the ocean, looking over the beach, working in a beautiful office nearby, spending time with close friends, doing lots of crossfit, surfing some, meditating, and feeling that I would like to share all this with someone.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, surfing, crossfit, meditation, a little yoga, swimming at Crissy Field, spending time with good friends, watching films, hiking, etc...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things! Like my work, making good raw banana milkshakes, trading massage, teaching things, relaxing, cooking, and metaphors (so they tell me).
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mostly foreign films; Satyajit Ray, Kurasawa, Wang Kar Wai, Judd Apatow. Music: Beatles and Led Zeppelin to Bach, Chopiin, Puccini. All types of food, with my current favorites being Italian, Thai, great sushi, and home cooked organic improv, accompanied by old school Italian wine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
If this is a biology question, then: air, water, food, warmth, sleep,
Otherwise: good company, being outdoors, deep feeling contemplation or ecstatic self-forgetting (or whatever you like to call that), physical activity (like crossfit, surfing, playing with kids, running, swimming in the ocean, climbing, etc...), and being of service to others.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How little I actually need to be thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
After crossfit: having dinner with a friend or friends, watching a film, walking on the beach at night, getting ready for the rest of the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I won't put my locker combo on here, but if you ask me a question, I will probably answer...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are kind, somewhat adventurous, open minded, understand yourself fairly well, are generally happy, and considerate of others.