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29 F Eugene, OR

My Details

Last Online
Aug 11
White, Other
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Used up
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Atheism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

Intense. Surreal. Charming. Satirist. Sarcastic. Wise. Bold. Deviant. Loyal. Devoted. Curious. Tenacious. Hopeless Romantic. Smartass.

I wanna be someone's number one jam. A reciprocity of adoration, appreciation, and inspiration. A clusterfuck of "Ima smoosh you with my love!" Hardcore Cuddling and the kind of sex where two bodies are one.

I am THE hopeless romantic and it fucking blows because I like everyone who is rather indifferent to me. Wah wah wah...

Whimsy ridden fantastical sort of lady with a strange life and stranger things to look forward to. Incredibly unconventional and NOT for the faint at heart. If there is a creative outlet, I jump on it.

Looking to meet the intellectually minded and overall stimulating folk who are honest, loyal, and follow through on their word. I enjoy other artistic types, musicians, creators, inventors, and people passionate about innovation and making some neat shit happen whether solo or collectively. Art, expression, and exploration are important to me. I am always learning and evolving as a person and often have a book or two I am enjoying.

-Pansexual. I'm attracted to people, not genitalia.
-Monogamous however I like exploring other adventurous women with a certain understanding and maturity.
-Alpha and Gender Fluid. I'm not particularly girly.
-INFP. Type 4 w/ 5 wing.
-Charmingly Bipolar (Type 2)
-Nervous in large crowds.
-Nocturnal and sleeps a lot.
-IQ-140. High Spatial. (By a Doctor, not the internet)
-Scorpio, Capricorn Rising, Moon in Pisces, Year of the Rat but this matters none at all.

Intelligence and wit turn me on more than anything! I am a very caring person and have a habit of being very affectionate for those I care about. It takes me a bit to warm up to a person but once I get warm, I am all about the little things, the things that make you giddy, put butterflies in your stomach, or grin like a fool. It's a connection with someone that yields that result...that's what I'm looking for!

As mentally complex as I am I am looking for something simple. Someone to cuddle with, watch movies, play video games, and be sweet with. Yeah...cheesy...but that's totally what I want. I'm both a home body and adventurous but a daydreamer more than anything.

Open mindedness is an absolute MUST!

There are some deal breakers. If you have no drive or passion in your life, don't contact me. Life is about growing, learning, evolving, and honing yourself into the person you want to become. Apathy is a deal breaker; feel something even if it's just a little something but don't always feel indifferent. The inability to reciprocate caring and giving in a relationship. I show those I care and do what I can to let them know. If you don't believe in making those little efforts you will have a sad panda.

I also will make sure my partner feels valued by me and that I do by them.

I'm like marla singer meets amelie.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finding people to connect to and relate to and telling myself that being picky is TOTALLY okay.

Overcoming obstacles and reminding myself that I'm a strong person.

I have a strange job. If I trust you, I'll tell you. I also do some counseling/consultation type of work. Let's just say I'm a skilled entrepreneur.

My passion is to either do further counseling and advocacy for women in need or to get into body modification.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Picking myself up, keep on keeping on, and not giving up.

Being loyal and a good listener. I have found people feel comfortable with me faster than most.

Making nothing into something in whatever context. Fixing things. Having a great sense of humor. Motivating others.

Being a cuddle buddy who can snuggle and watch movies for hours on end.

Being way too damn nice.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am incredibly easy to talk to and quite often have total strangers opening up to me. I'm a gentle spirit even with my seemingly "intimidating" nature.

I'm kinda fucking hilarious.

That I'm tall and very noticeable in a crowd.
My intelligence and ability to carry on a conversation.
The fact I know way too much about random crap.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love this --->

I'll work on this. For the time being, I'm really into history and documentaries. I've been watching a lot of Louis CK, UK shows, Victorian-era romance/dramas, and documentaries on world culture. I don't own a television or watch TV but dig random indie flicks. I also don't really like American culture/media.

I also like industrial, experimental techno, heavy metal, 90's grunge, and drum and bass. I hate top 40's.

Food wise I eat mostly vegetarian but do need meat once in a while (once a week maybe). I'm all about trying new things and love cooking with someone. I abhor fast food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-The Internet.
-Music and other Creative Media.
-A place of my own where I feel safe.
-Snuggle buddies
-Hot tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If the "forever alone" meme was inspired by my true life events.

Art projects, little creations, designs.

If I bitch too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working if I need the money at that point...


Looking into attending a play party, art show, or live music. I also enjoy trying out new restaurants, preferably ones with international cuisine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am incredibly self conscious. I get stupidly nervous when meeting people and just hope that my mind is truly what attracts you.

I've had some crap encounters from this site but I've also met some nice people. The former happens more often though and I wish the journal feature was still here so you could partake in the Schadenfreude it would provide to you.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
....Please write something significant so that's it's apparent you actually READ my profile. I know it's lengthy but it's like that for a reason. I don't want anyone's time wasted, yours or mine.
....Be concise, respectful, and have good intentions. Sending me a message that's 1-2 sentences gets deleted. Make an effort in writing me...this is, in fact, your first impression.
....A true person is what you are looking for. Someone that challenges you, inspires you, motivates you. I'm picky and look for those who push me to be a better person. This is why I dig the creative type, thinkers, movers, do-ers.

If I don't respond immediately, don't fret. I get a lot of messages and I try to respond to everyone who makes an effort.