Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Intense. Surreal. Charming. Satirist. Sarcastic. Wise. Bold.
Deviant. Loyal. Devoted. Curious. Tenacious. Hopeless Romantic.
Whimsy ridden fantastical sort of lady with a strange life and
stranger things to look forward to. Incredibly unconventional and
NOT for the faint at heart. If there is a creative outlet, I jump
Looking to meet the intellectually minded and overall stimulating
folk who are honest, loyal, and follow through on their word. I
enjoy other artistic types, musicians, creators, inventors, and
people passionate about innovation and making some neat shit happen
whether solo or collectively.
I'm eager for someone who shows genuine effort and interest in
getting to know me and appreciating me. It's usually me that winds
up maintaining most of the relationship with little reciprocation;
I'm ready for a change here and with someone that I'm also just as
I have a sort of curse; It seems that if I find someone attractive
I become invisible to them. True story. For some reason I
intimidate people and that just bites me in the ass as making
friends and meeting people has been very hard for me so...reach
out...I dare ya.
I'm no longer willing to settle for mediocrity or anyone who half
With that said
...when did taking someone out to dinner no longer become an
Appreciated and adored and not just being lusted after yet all
three together is encouraged!
-Pansexual. I'm attracted to people, not genitalia.
-Monogamous however I like exploring other adventurous women with a
certain understanding and maturity.
-Alpha and Gender Fluid. I'm not particularly girly and have a
stronger libido than most women.
-INFP. Type 4 w/ 5 wing.
-Nervous in large crowds.
-Nocturnal and sleeps a lot.
-IQ-140. High Spatial. (By a Doctor, not the internet)
-Scorpio, Capricorn Rising, Moon in Pisces, Year of the Rat but
this matters none at all.
Open mindedness is an absolute MUST!
I'm like marla singer meets amelie.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Embracing a long term goal and starting up a very unique sort of
business where I can hopefully begin to show an aspect of human
nature in a very real way. It also is my effort to create a place
where women are given the freedom to present their sexuality as
they want and offer something very true to them.
I have circumstances in my life that make things a considerable bit
more difficult for me and most would find overwhelming. I've had to
become very strong and resilient to handle things I've been through
and situations I may not have had control over. Naturally, these
things have shaped and affected me but in no way have broken me.
I've found that people who tend to not understand struggle and the
importance of introspection and accountability pass judgment on me
and are put off. The lack of understanding and willingness to ask
questions is bothersome but this is how some people are and
assumptions are things I have to deal with more than I'd like.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Self employment and creating new endeavors. Being an autodidact I
always have something new I am teaching myself and it's often for a
Listening to others and being a sounding board. Creating cathartic
experiences for people to help them move through something or
challenge themselves. (My job as a Top in BDSM)
Keeping my word.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am incredibly easy to talk to and quite often have total
strangers opening up to me. I'm a gentle spirit even with my
seemingly "intimidating" nature.
I'm kinda fucking hilarious.
That I'm tall and very noticeable in a crowd.
My intelligence and ability to carry on a conversation.
The fact I know way too much about random crap.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a female that plays video games...a lot. I also stream them. I
also enjoy MMOs and am a nerd fantasy. I like horror, adventure,
indie, and puzzle types of games and had a skyrim addiction for a
while. Total PC gamer, not into consoles so much.
Love this ---> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dTZQ2IB_x7c
I'll work on this. For the time being, I'm really into history and
documentaries. I've been watching a lot of Louis CK, UK shows,
Victorian-era romance/dramas, and documentaries on world culture. I
don't own a television or watch TV but dig random indie flicks. I
also don't really like American culture/media.
I also like industrial, experimental techno, heavy metal, 90's
grunge, and drum and bass. I hate top 40's.
Food wise I eat mostly vegetarian but do need meat once in a while
(once a week maybe). I'm all about trying new things and love
cooking with someone. I abhor fast food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Music and other Creative Media.
-A place of my own where I feel safe.
-Snuggle buddies or basically having a meaningful connection with
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I've had such a hard time connecting with others at
specifically this point in my life. I've been alone for a while and
continually seek connection and then hope it stays
The fact it's rare to find women that view sexuality with the kind
of tenacity and openness that I do. I'm capable of casual sex or
can wear a bow tie if it's formal. I'm also capable of just having
a strong platonic connection with someone however I've realized
that many women have negative feelings regarding openly embracing
their sexuality or expressing particular needs. Don't confuse this
with me being careless or reckless sexually; I still am picky and
have to be considerably attracted to someone. A pulse is not the
only requirement I have and actually most people end up being a bit
too vanilla or 'tame' for me.
If I'm the only actual altruist that exists or if someone else has
it as a part of their nature to care for others without conscious
thought or reward.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably working unless someone suggests a fun idea then I will
switch around my schedule.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am incredibly self conscious and my self esteem is barely above
craptastic. Example...I am surprised when someone finds me
attractive as apparently I am considered such. Compared to most
I've had a very hard life and it's left some scars and bruises. I
fear rejection and in the past have settled for mediocrity.
That shit is about to change.
Also, I sleep with a teddy bear and have had the same one for 15
You should message me if
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-IN REGARDS TO MESSAGING ME:
....Please write something significant so that's it's apparent you
actually READ my profile. I know it's lengthy but it's like that
for a reason. I don't want anyone's time wasted, yours or
....Be concise, respectful, and have good intentions. Sending me a
message that's 1-2 sentences gets deleted. Make an effort in
writing me...this is, in fact, your first impression.
....A true person is what you are looking for. Someone that
challenges you, inspires you, motivates you. I'm picky and look for
those who push me to be a better person. This is why I dig the
creative type, thinkers, movers, do-ers.
If I don't respond immediately, don't fret. I get a lot of messages
and I try to respond to everyone who makes an effort.
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