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30 Eugene, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 8, 2014
White, Other
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Used up
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

Intense. Surreal. Charming. Satirist. Sarcastic. Wise. Bold. Deviant. Loyal. Devoted. Curious. Tenacious. Hopeless Romantic. Smartass.

I wanna be someone's number one jam. A reciprocity of adoration, appreciation, and inspiration. A clusterfuck of "Ima smoosh you with my love!" Hardcore Cuddling and the kind of sex where two bodies are one.

I am THE hopeless romantic and it fucking blows because I like everyone who is rather indifferent to me. Wah wah wah...

Whimsy ridden fantastical sort of lady with a strange life and stranger things to look forward to. Incredibly unconventional and NOT for the faint at heart. If there is a creative outlet, I jump on it.

Looking to meet the intellectually minded and overall stimulating folk who are honest, loyal, and follow through on their word. I enjoy other artistic types, musicians, creators, inventors, and people passionate about innovation and making some neat shit happen whether solo or collectively.

-Pansexual. I'm attracted to people, not genitalia.
-Monogamous however I like exploring other adventurous women with a certain understanding and maturity.
-Alpha and Gender Fluid. I'm not particularly girly.
-INFP. Type 4 w/ 5 wing.
-Charmingly Bipolar (Type 2)
-Nervous in large crowds.
-Nocturnal and sleeps a lot.
-IQ-140. High Spatial. (By a Doctor, not the internet)
-Scorpio, Capricorn Rising, Moon in Pisces, Year of the Rat but this matters none at all.

It is an absolute must that my ideal match can keep up with me intellectually and a big plus if also creatively possessing the ability to also manipulate abstract ideas. Daydreaming and brainstorming keep me going and are often a tool for moody or depressive spells.

Open mindedness is an absolute MUST!

There are some deal breakers. If you have no drive or passion in your life, don't contact me. Life is about growing, learning, evolving, and honing yourself into the person you want to become. Apathy is a deal breaker; feel something even if it's just a little something but don't always feel indifferent. The inability to reciprocate caring and giving in a relationship. I show those I care and do what I can to let them know. If you don't believe in making those little efforts you will have a sad panda.

I also will make sure my partner feels valued by me and that I do by them.

I'm like marla singer meets amelie.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on being a stronger person and drawing people near me that support my greatness. Allowing myself to be "picky" and to aim for excellence as perfection to me signifies there is no more room for growth. There's always room!

Promoting and being a go to/mentor for those interested in the BDSM lifestyle. I say this to show my commitment, not to give off that I have loose sexual boundaries or am willing to just consider an activity with just anyone. While this definitely shapes my sexuality that doesn't mean that is the entirety of who I am. I would say if you contact me simply because you think me being a Dominant Female is hot, then it's likely we aren't a good match because there is so much more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Self employment and creating new endeavors. Being an autodidact I always have something new I am teaching myself and it's often for a useful reason.

Listening to others and being a sounding board. Creating cathartic experiences for people to help them move through something or challenge themselves. (My job as a Top in BDSM)

Keeping my word.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am incredibly easy to talk to and quite often have total strangers opening up to me. I'm a gentle spirit even with my seemingly "intimidating" nature.

I'm kinda fucking hilarious.

That I'm tall and very noticeable in a crowd.
My intelligence and ability to carry on a conversation.
The fact I know way too much about random crap.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love this --->

I'll work on this. For the time being, I'm really into history and documentaries. I've been watching a lot of Louis CK, UK shows, Victorian-era romance/dramas, and documentaries on world culture. I don't own a television or watch TV but dig random indie flicks. I also don't really like American culture/media.

I also like industrial, experimental techno, heavy metal, 90's grunge, and drum and bass. I hate top 40's.

Food wise I eat mostly vegetarian but do need meat once in a while (once a week maybe). I'm all about trying new things and love cooking with someone. I abhor fast food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-The Internet.
-Music and other Creative Media.
-A place of my own where I feel safe.
-Snuggle buddies
-Hot tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The fact I've been alone for quite a while and I'm very eager for that to change. I also will teach myself things in my spare time so I think a lot about new projects. Currently it's network security and back end web development.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably working unless someone suggests a fun idea then I will switch around my schedule.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am incredibly self conscious and my self esteem is barely above craptastic. Example...I am surprised when someone finds me attractive as apparently I am considered such. Compared to most I've had a very hard life and it's left some scars and bruises. I fear rejection and in the past have settled for mediocrity.

That shit is about to change.
You should message me if
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....Please write something significant so that's it's apparent you actually READ my profile. I know it's lengthy but it's like that for a reason. I don't want anyone's time wasted, yours or mine.
....Be concise, respectful, and have good intentions. Sending me a message that's 1-2 sentences gets deleted. Make an effort in writing me...this is, in fact, your first impression.
....A true person is what you are looking for. Someone that challenges you, inspires you, motivates you. I'm picky and look for those who push me to be a better person. This is why I dig the creative type, thinkers, movers, do-ers.

If I don't respond immediately, don't fret. I get a lot of messages and I try to respond to everyone who makes an effort.