I am human, dancer, and everything else.
My Self-Summary
My name is Dominic. I currently reside in
Indiana. I go to school at Ivy Tech.
I'll be transferring to IUPUI next year.
I like all sorts of things and all sorts of people. I tend to
develop interests in
unusual things (and people)
rather quickly.
I enjoy
trying
to dance in
an aesthetically
pleasing manner. Most of the time, I fail. That doesn't stop me
from trying.
I like animals, music, trees, rain, clouds,
inclement weather, flowers,
wrestling, building things, getting out of the house, finding
common ground, exploring, adventuring,
Scrabble, musicals, gory movies,
trivia,
kites,
bubbles, long
walks on the beach, and
shiny objects.
I do NOT like political discourse, tabletop roleplaying games,
strict adherence to gender roles for their own sake, bickering,
deceit, unkindness, and excessive amounts of irrationality.
I am always looking to meet new people and make new friends, and I
am in a polyamorous relationship with
pi_person and
StripedRutabaga, but I am
-probably- not interested in having sex with you if I don't know
you well or if you ask me for more pictures, cybersex, phonesex,
etc.
Sexuality-wise, I would best be described as gay. If you are a man
(in gender, not sex), I am effectively a gay man. If you are a
woman (again in gender, not sex), I am effectively a lesbian. If
you have no gender or orientation, I will match that. I am only
attracted to the varying degrees of queerness. Consider it a fetish
if you must.
I enjoy sneezing, a lot. F'real.
Also, I am a cyborg.
Also also, I am a pre-hormone, probably-non-op
genderqueer FTM. Ask me about my
transness.
Postmodernism gets me hot, but I rarely read.
What I’m doing with my life
- travelling
- meeting people
- enjoying the nightlife
- being love and compassion whenever possible
- photographing stuff
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm fairly gregarious. I am enthusiastic. I am frequently
indecisive about little things, as I don't care enough about them
to make decisions (examples: what to eat for dinner, what I want to
do on my day off, and so on). I can be rather spastic at times, but
I am told it can be endearing.
As far as physical traits, I get a lot of comments on my hair. And
my ass.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
(a) I like beautiful words and beautiful thoughts. What strikes me
as beautiful words or ideas may change at any given moment. As
mentioned above, postmodernism gets me hot.
(b) The Fountain, Pan's Labyrinth, Orlando, A Life Less Ordinary,
Newsies
(c) (Alphabetically Abridged)
Levi Adams, Tori Amos, Bjork, Black Eyed Peas, David Bowie, Bright
Eyes, Johnny Cash, Chopin, Patsy Cline, Cruxshadows, the Cure,
Dashboard Confessional, John Denver, Neil Diamond, Ani DiFranco,
Ditty Bops, Dresden Dolls, Evelyn Evelyn, the Killers, Allison
Krauss, Led Zeppelin, Lemonheads, Lords Of Acid, Magnetic Fields,
Erin McKeown, Mika, Moxy Fruvous, Jason Mraz, Anne Murray, Julia
Nunes, Old Crow Medicine Show, Opeth, Pavement, Pink Floyd,
Placebo, The Postal Service, Rammstein, Jul3ia Richard, Rilo Kiley,
Scissor Sisters, Simon and Garfunkel, Frank Sinatra, Statler
Brothers, They Might Be Giants, Ting Tings, Tool, Thomas Truax, VNV
Nation, Voltaire, Rufus Wainwright, Jason Webley, Wild Bill
Corney
More generally, tribal drumming, drum and bass, bluegrass, and folk
music.
(d) Spaghetti, meat, macaroni and cheese, tuna salad sandwiches,
grilled cheese, garlic bread, and other foods a five-year-old might
eat. I don't particularly care for gourmet foods. I have simple
tastes. I like bread that is crusty on the outside and soft and
gooey on the inside. I like cream of garlic soup. I am ambivalent
to chocolate in bar form or ice cream form, but I love good
brownies, fudge, and chocolate chip cookies. I like pickles a lot.
I like things that taste good fried with barbeque sauce.
I am not vegan or vegetarian in any way. I don't do anything as a
political statement, and I figure my body will tell me what it does
and does not want me to put into it. If someone can tell me where I
can acquire whole-animal products, however, I will gladly look into
it.
The six things I could never do without
Assuming we don't mean food/water/&c:
1. Affectionate Love
2. Passion and beauty (to me, they are the same and therefore count
as one thing.)
3. music
4. My functional physiology (not as obvious as food and
water)
5. A companion/compatriot/cohort who is like family
6. the stars
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This answer is almost exactly the same as my answer to the previous
question.
Throw in a dash of "politics", a pinch of "human nature", a cup of
"sex", a gallon of "the gay" and a heaping tablespoon of
"nostalgia". Mix well. Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Bake on high
for 45 minutes or until crispy.
Serves approximately 6.5 billion.
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying to think of things to do!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
This is a stupid question. I have no secrets.
I suppose the most useful thing to clarify would be that gender
fails at me. There are times when I will dress in a very masculine
or feminine manner, but usually I dress androgynously. My
mannerisms and thought processes are somewhat gender-ambiguous,
bordering on masculine. As far as sexually, I prefer to be in the
more active role (although I prefer to be pursued, or at least to
know that a would-be partner is interested). I require
responsiveness in a partner, or I think I am not doing things well.
Some people would take this as a challenge, but as I always try my
hardest, it just leaves me feeling inadequate.
I sometimes (usually) feel like I should have been born male. That
said, I am mostly comfortable with my androgynous personality (I
sometimes feel like my testosterone levels are probably close to
those of many cismales I know, though I've never been checked) and
am considering taking hormones to look more masculine, but I am
definitely still in the "considering" stage.
You should message me if
-you feel at all compelled to. I love meeting new people.
-you are capable of independent thought. Having ideas is
sexy.
-you like squirrels and/or cats.
-you don't "match" me very well.
-you are fascinated by relatively obscure topics and want to
discuss any of them with me.
-I show up on your stalkers list and look interesting.
-you can think of any other reason to.