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34 Chatham, UK Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Jul 30, 2014
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism but it’s not important
High school
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So, about me...

I'm an honest, decent, lovable person with a very dry, and somewhat sarcastic, sense of humour....I'm 32 and have done reasonably well with my life so far - I have a good career in financial services and own my own home.

I come from a big, but close, family, who mean the world to one claim to fame is that my uncle was the lead singer of "The Stranglers" for 16 years. My friends are also very important - after all, they're the ones who pick me up when I'm down, and put me back together when I fall apart.

I love history, especially local history, and I love reading about the history of places I've been to, and looking through old photos of places I've lived - I've lost count of how many hours I've wasted looking through the Kent History Forum. I enjoy visiting historic places, and walking around old buildings, wondering what it would have been like to be there during it's heyday.

I'm a bit of a film geek....especially horror, over-the-top action, and GOOD comedy...I couldn't possibly tell you what my favourite film is as there are too many...I also like watching sport, particularly football, rugby and Formula 1. I used to play snooker regularly, but haven't been for a while.

Anyway, that's enough about me...

I'm looking for someone who is happy being themselves, and doesn't take themselves too seriously...I believe that real love takes time to build - if you make the effort to get to know someone, you will be rewarded....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
The usual...working too hard...not playing hard enough...planning world domination, for the sole purpose of making Monday mornings illegal...that sort of thing
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to other peoples problems...offering advice and support...problem solving...

Karaoke (well, in my mind I am...)

Falling asleep on trains...starting things, getting bored, and finally giving up...making inappropriate comments...remembering useless trivia...filling my friends Twitter timelines with pointless information...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I have absolutely no fashion sense whatsoever....seriously, clothes are there to keep you warm, and stop you getting arrested for indecent exposure - who cares what colour they are...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't really have a favourite film, but you're going to make me name one, it would be "The Silence of the Lambs"

I don't really watch a huge amount of TV, but do like The Big Bang Theory and some of the recent British dramas, such Sherlock and Ripper Street...I also love the old British comedy shows, such as Blackadder, Red Dwarf, Only Fools and Horses, etc...

Music wise, I like a lot of rock/indie stuff, but will listen to pretty much anything other than Rap or R n B...

I love my food, and my favourite food is Chinese, but i'll eat pretty much anything - Indian, Mexican, Italian - you name it...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Friends
2. A Job (out of necessity rather than choice)
3. Films
4. Music
5. My Car
6. Bacon...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Strange, random thoughts....if I tried to explain, you'd just end up as confused as me...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This is going to make me sound very old and boring, but I'm usually at home, watching a film on a Friday night....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I was willing to admit it, it wouldn't be private...;-)
You should message me if
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If you like what you see, and are willing to take a chance...I always reply