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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45-86
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 13
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Don't let the short hair fool you. I'm an aging hippie.

After 35 years in the labor pool I am now attending school full-time, intending to make a mid-life career change from publishing to the arts. It's exciting, but I'm living on student loans.

I have a dog and 2 cats so if you're allergic pass me by.

I identify as poly and my primary partner is curvygirlicious on OKC. If you are looking for your one-and-only I'm not the man for you. But relationships come in all styles and flavors so please don't be shy with me.

I'm an ethical slut, emphasis on the "ethical."

I am a leftist and proud of it. If you voted for Romney/Ryan we are NOT a match. If we crossed paths at Zuccotti Park we should talk.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Getting ready for Dark Odyssey.

Doing my small part to abolish wage slavery.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking in public, forming compound sentences, and making new friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My gray hair and my deep dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I consume a fair bit of media, print and otherwise, but it takes me forever to finish something because I'm usually reading several things at once. Currently I'm reading non-fiction and graphic novels almost exclusively, I don't know why I just am. On my nightstand you'll find "Teach Yourself iCloud in 10 Minutes," "Walmart: The Bully of Bentonville," "Crisis on Multiple Earths," a biography of Gene Autry, classic 60s Fantastic Four by Stan and Jack, and "A Child's Garden of Grass" by Jack S. Margolis and Richard Clorfene.

Musically I'm all over the map. Currently I'm listening to the Knitters, Speedbuggy, Yardbirds, antmusic for antpeople, Sex Pistols, Commander Cody, X, Dread Zeppelin, The Drongos, Flying Burrito Brothers, Dave Alvin, The Ramones, The Blasters, Social Distortion, The Beatles, and The Dave Clark 5. As I type this I'm listening to String Cheese Incident play side 2 of Abbey Road. Bowie changed my life, The Dead taught me how to dance, Patti Smith taught me how to rebel, and Frank Zappa is like a god for me.

Many years ago I went through what I call my Tragic Folkie Period. It began in 1974 when I discovered early Dylan and ended in 1978 when I discovered the Sex Pistols. For some reason I seem to be returning to those days since I'm listening to a lot of American roots music lately.

My teevee watching consists mostly of The Walking Dead, Doctor Who, and adult swim. I watch teevee on DVD and online rather than on the box. Please feel free to introduce me to something great.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
**Coffee (The Sacred Water of Life!)
**Fresh fruit
**A daily shower
**dental floss
**Your hot breath on my neck
**My hot breath on your neck
**Sunblock. Serious Sunblock.

Yes, I know that's more than six---I can count---but I refuse to accept arbitrary limitations imposed by a shadowly authority.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My lovers, my friends, and my politics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
open to suggestion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm kinky enough to be interesting, but not enough to be arrested (offer not valid in MS or TN).
You should message me if
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Some of the qualities I find VERY attractive are:

Intelligence (because smart people are always the best lovers);
Healthy libido and a working knowledge of your own pleasure;
Actors, writers, and comics are a plus (but feel free to define your creativity in your own terms); A full-body approach to physical communication; Sense of humor; and Emotional stability.

Control freaks and prudes should not apply---I'm not what you are looking for. Seriously, I would just make you crazy. Thanks anyway.

You should understand that talking is part of foreplay--and that afterplay is also foreplay.

Chemistry is all-important in a friend, a partner, a cast member, a fuck buddy, or a book group moderator. It's hard to define but impossible to fake. But as Justice Potter Stewart once said to his lesbian dom, "I know it when I see it."