I am doing great, thanks for asking, and how are you?.
My Self-Summary
My name is Daniel. Some people call me Rocco. I always forget who
calls me by what name. I like my absent-mindedness; it's endearing,
damn it!
I'm big on personal honesty, so here's exactly what I think it'd be
like to meet me for the first time:
If you meet me in a public, social setting, you'll get the idea
that I'm an overly-charismatic charmer; that I'm witty and
interesting, but too pleased with my own intelligence for my own
good (unless you meet me while I'm at work, where my soul is dead,
heh). My aggressively social facade is just that. It's a proactive
defense against accidentally baring my emotional core in an
inopportune situation. People are vicious, and view "opening up" as
a weakness.
If I have the benefit of meeting you in a one-on-one setting, the
arrogance recedes in exchange for a quiet honesty and smart (if
silly) humor. Once the complicated social positioning is out the
window, most people are at least a little more willing to be
themselves if they see a genuine person talking to them.
I prefer being genuine with everyone, but sadly, that sentiment is
not often reciprocated, or even appreciated.
What I’m doing with my life
I work customer service for a big-name wireless phone provider, and
it sucks the nuts, even though I'm good at it and have a near
encyclopedic knowledge of our products/policy. People who use
cellphones are kind of insane. And that means you (and me, of
course).
Also, I really need to swallow my pride, get off my ass, and go
back to school. I was a Music Education (vocal) major for 3
semesters, then started over and put in another two semesters
knocking out basic classes. That was mid 2007.
When I'm not working or gaming, I can be found composing music that
no one will likely hear. It's my "hobby," but I hate that word. I
don't like putting limiting qualifiers on things that are important
to me.
I’m really good at
Enthusiastically embarking upon grandiose endeavors. Finishing
them, not so much. I talk about stuff real good, too. If you wanna
talk about stuff with me, I like talkin' 'bout stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
It'd be nice if it were something poetic like my "piercing gaze" or
my "overpowering presence of spirit", but it's probably something
superficial, like my "big nose".
Almost everyone that I know has at one point or another told me I
over-analyze things. It is literally sometimes one of the first
things I hear from new acquaintances. But even if I come across as
being too cerebral (which I usually don't actually. Mine is a very
engaging over-analysis), I really resent OKCupid labeling me "less
compassionate" than the average dude. I also disagree with the bit
about me being "mathematically inclined," but I'll let that one
slide.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books:I'm not into reading stories. Not since high school, anyway
(when I read voraciously, an entire book in a sitting). I'll
occasionally pick up a good piece of nonfiction. Right now I'm
devouring Richard Dawkins' "The God Delusion", and next up is his
"The Selfish Gene". (Hopefully that scared away all the Jeezus
freeks.)
Movies: I'm not a huge movie buff, but if I'm gonna pay for a
ticket, the nerdier the movie the better. For instance, I squealed
with delight when I heard about Forbidden Kindgom (Jackie Chan AND
Jet Li??). I am, however, quite a big
anime fan. Mostly old-school stuff. Some
favorites include Record of Lodoss War, Rurouni Kenshin, Ghost in
the Shell Stand Alone Complex, The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya,
Nodame Cantabile, Death Note (don't judge me!), Escaflowne (stop
judging me!!), and anything by Hayao Miyazaki or Studio Ghibli
EDIT: with the exception of "Ponyo". Bleagh!
Music: Most of my favorite music came from
Japan in the form of
video game music, anime music,
and Japanese rock, but I do like a select few domestic artists. I'm
also a huge advocate of
Classical music (mostly from the
Romantic period), and I've been opening up to Jazz lately
(
Hiromi
Uehara!!)
Food: bleh. I eat cause I have to. I enjoy cooking, but mostly just
for other people. I rarely cook for myself.
The six things I could never do without
I'll try to keep this to material things, otherwise I'll try to be
"profound" and list "hope" or something idealistic/cheesy like
that.
1. An mp3 player with a large hard drive
2. A good pair of headphones
3. A really soft pillow [EDIT: and mattress!]
4. A camera
5. A car (or a city whose mass transit system doesn't suck)
6. Quiet when I need it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
You name it, and I'd be willing to spend way too long thinking
about it. And fifty other things, simultaneously.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm such a dork. I actually update this when my Friday night
activities change. I just joined a small choral group of
ex-classmates and friends. It's mostly cheesy music (Jazz-flavored
Christmas carols, anyone?), but it does feel good to be singing in
a group again. I haven't performed publicly with them yet, but you
can see them on YouTube. We're called "Corpus Christi Choral
Artists".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
The first time I saw "The Skinny" listed on my profile, I thought
OKCupid was calling me names. Also, whats up with my lack of
personality traits? I HAZ A PERSONALITY LOLZ.
You should message me if
You can tell how awkward it is for me to talk myself up, and you
prefer honest, pretense-free discourse.