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41 M Cambridge, MA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 26
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Korean (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm pretty much a Jack of all Trades or maybe sometimes just a Jack-ass of all Trades -- I'm good at what I do professionally (and un-professionally) but there's always plenty more to learn and my life is made richer by the people around me and the experiences I share with them.

I'm not religious, but since I had to go to church *every* Sunday as a kid some of the values must've rubbed off.

But with that said, the one thing I'm absolutely certain of is that I don't want to spend the rest of eternity with the people from Bible study.

For whatever reason, when I see "OK Cupid" the first thing that pops into my mind is "OK Stupid" -- Could have something to do with having heard those words directed at me more than once.
What I’m doing with my life
I've spent most of my adult life in academia and developing my career. I moved to Colorado from California about 3-1/2 years ago to focus a little less on working (though I enjoy it) and more on living. Since then I moved to Philadelphia and now here I am in Cambridge -- For professional reasons, experiencing the un-holy trinity of bad weather (last winter was more than I bargained for), heavy drinking, and sports fanaticism came as an added perk.
I’m really good at
Filling out these essays
The first things people usually notice about me
In Colorado, probably that I'm Asian. After getting to know me, maybe that I'm the whitest Asian they've ever met, and maybe will ever meet. Who knows, you tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh these are always tough but. . .
- Books: Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs, The New Industrial State, Brave New World. . .
- Movies: Das Boot, Bladerunner, The Princess Bride. . .
- Food: Mexican (at least this is something I can't seem to find in Colorado, Philadelphia, or just about anywhere except for southern California, and I miss it)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I should write in this particular blank space, how to keep our country from succumbing to the English model of society, that ants are, collectively, smarter than humans (painfully obvious when stuck in traffic), and why it is that there seem to be a fair number of attractive, interesting women here that I have yet to run into while out and about the city.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a secret fear that as things like phones get smarter, I am getting dumber.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You won't immediately assume I'm conceited just because I'm so smart, good-looking, and successful.

Come on, you shouldn't come to that conclusion until much, much later, after you've really gotten to know me!