That is one of the most annoying things I have EVER found with dating.  Girls claim that they are tired of having another asshole who is just interested in them for sex.  They claim to want a good man to be there for them, be caring, and be strong.  Well it turns out that the more of that you give someone that your a seriously interested in the more likley you will end up the dreaded "Friend Zone".  Girls claim to want a knight in shining armor, someone who is chivalrous but when they get it they wont let that guy get in any closer than "Just Friends".  This is hypocritical and just pisses me off! Why dont girls just admit that they want the same thing that most guys do, good looks, someone fun to be around, and to be good in the sack.  Quit making guys like me think that were something special because we WANT to be good to you and not treat you like shit.  When in reality all you are doing is getting our hopes up and hurting us worse than if you just said "sorry I dont date (Fat/ ugly as balls) people but please be there for me when I need someone to cry to when the pretty dickhead crushes me, mmmkay thanks".... just some old fashioned food for thought