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43 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 1
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My sense of humor and ethics are what my friends value in me and they are life long. I favor good conversation and witty banter at a pub rather than going to a club. I'm a geek partly due to my industry and partly because that is just who I am. Growing up, there were dungeons and dragons involved... I've worked at various different jobs in my life including airline services, bouncer, retail, service desk, etc. I've also tried my hand at college but found I am better learning hands on. Now I have been in my career path for more than 20 years and I find I am pretty good at it. For fun, I like to hang out with friends, ride my bike, spend time with my family, or just spend quiet time catching up on my hobbies.
What I’m doing with my life
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Constant state of trying to learn new things and be a good friend and human being.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've been told I have a dry sense of humor. But in gatherings, I'm the laugh out loud guy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Some people have said I'm tall for an Asian. Are short Asians still a thing? Also, my arm tattoos. Yes, there are meanings behind them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, Sookie Stackhouse, Game of Thrones. I also read the Walking Dead comic books. It's so much better than the show.
Music: New Wave, Industrial, Electronic Music, Classic Hip Hop, Post-Punk. The Cure is my all time favorite.
Film/TV: Sci-Fi, Horror, Drama, Fantasy. Favorite TV right now is Gotham, The Strain, Sons of Anarchy, American Horror Story, Sherlock, True Detective, Louie, Walking Dead and Game of Thrones, Drunk History.
Food: Always love a good stir fry or steak. Korean BBQ is my favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Smart Phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How so many people in power seem like sociopaths.
Also, why is it that a guy being a cat owner brings so much judgement from women dog owners...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This depends on the week. Sometimes I make plans with friends and sometimes I just curl up and catch up on my shows.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This is the dumbest part of this profile. I rarely see anyone ever answer this without mocking it in some way. If you get to know me, there is not much I won't tell you.
You should message me if
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You like what I have to say. Simple as that. Women do that here right? Like, message guys first? Right? ;)
Side Note: What is the "like" feature for? I click it if I like that person's profile and/or picture. It seemed pretty obvious but I realized I get "likes" but zero responses when I message. I swear I don't send nasty pics or dumb "Hey Baby" type messages. In fact, this sounds stupid but I don't know how to send pictures on this site. How do these jerks who do this figure that out, yet can't put together a proper respectful message? Weird.