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43 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:57pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Born in S. Korea, raised in Chicago. I love this city for all it's offerings, though winter can be a huge pain in the butt. In the warmer weather, I love to ride and look for any excuse to get on the road. Live music is a big deal for me. Some shows I've been to recently are: Skinny Puppy, Kraftwerk, and VNV Nation. By no means does this cover my tastes and it's hard to pick and choose sometimes. I have a fairly tight circle of friends and I'm usually the "smart ass". Some of my friends I've kept since grammar school, and I think I'm pretty happy with those around me. What's a nice to have right now is that special someone. Someone whom I can emotionally connect with. That someone I can't wait to see again. So far online dating has been my option because I work in an industry that doesn't lend itself to a lot of single women. (Infrastructure engineer in IT) I'm also not much into hanging out at clubs or bars every weekend. Conversation is better had without a ton of background noise. Anyway, I'd like to meet someone laid back, into trying new things, and have some things in common to base a connection off of.
What I’m doing with my life
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Pretty much trying to squeeze as much into my day as possible. Looking out for my kids and my career.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The dead pan. I mean it. Not sure if it's a compliment but many have commented on it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look exactly like my pictures. o_O
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, Sookie Stackhouse, Game of Thrones. I also read the Walking Dead comic books. It's so much better than the show.
Music: New Wave, Industrial, Electronic Music, Classic Hip Hop, Punk. The Cure is my all time favorite.
Film/TV: Sci-Fi, Horror, Drama, Fantasy. Favorite TV right now is Gotham, The Strain, Sons of Anarchy, American Horror Story, Sherlock, True Detective, Louie, Walking Dead and Game of Thrones. (Drunk History!)
Food: Always love a good stir fry or steak. Korean BBQ is my favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
How do you make this list without sounding cliche or superficial? I'm a social person. I like being around people. I'm also a media junkie. Music in my car, catching up on shows and movies, going to concerts, etc are all good things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This is so random. When I'm out, it's usually for dinner/drinks, the occasional concert/movie, or sometimes working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I Googled the "Where for art thou" question. I'm sorry.
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