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43 M Chicago, IL

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Okay)

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My self-summary
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- My tastes in music and multimedia is all over the place. Haven't heard that before right? I just like what I like. Except Korean folk music. It sucks. I'm sorry.
- I like motorcycles and will be on my bike most of the Spring through Fall as long as it's dry. If it rains or dips below 50 I'm kind of a wuss. I also sometimes make the motor sound with my mouth as I ride around.
- Dogs are cool but I love cats. If you require that I tongue kiss your dog or let it sniff my butt, I'm probably not your guy. If your cat wants to? Maybe.
- I have a very wide circle of friends and some who go back to my grammar school days. Fun Fact: My aunt convinced me in my freshman year of high school that I should get a perm because it would make me cool. Result? It was not cool...
- I'm one of those guys that argue about geeks versus nerds. Star Wars always trumps Star Trek. Oh, and JJ Abrams is the Uwe Boll of reboots. Please make him stop.
- I'm a senior storage engineer and supervisor to a team of engineers. That totally made me attractive right? Admit it.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to be a good dad as well as kick butt in my career. Middle-Aged IT Ninja Father.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
VMware and NetApp Management. (Hot!)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm Asian. True story.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, Sookie Stackhouse, Game of Thrones. I also read the Walking Dead comic books. It's so much better than the show.
Music: New Wave, Industrial, EDM/EBM, Classic Hip Hop, Punk. The Cure is my all time favorite.
Film/TV: Sci-Fi, Horror, Drama, Fantasy. Favorite TV right now is American Horror Story, Sherlock, True Detective, Louie, Walking Dead and Game of Thrones.
Food: Indian, Korean, Thai, Chinese
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
How do you make this list without sounding cliche or superficial? I'm a social person. I like being around people. I'm also a media junkie. Music in my car, catching up on shows and movies, going to concerts, etc are all good things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything and nothing. Usually all at once...
The Dunning-Kruger effect, which says, in sum, that the dumber you are, the more confident you are that you’re not actually dumb.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends. During cold weather I'm more likely to do in door things like restaurants, movies, etc. In nicer weather I like to ride and meet up with friends where there's likely a patio.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I Googled the "Where for art thou" question. I'm sorry.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You are ok with dating single dads.
You like kids. And I just mean a genuine open heart for children in general.
You value someone for both inside and outside qualities.
You look at my picture and say "damn, he looks nothing like Glenn from Walking Dead" and that's ok by you.
You know who Yuen Woo Ping is and not think it's some brand of gold club.
You want to actually meet instead of being pen pals.