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Dontae09

35 M Canton, OH

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Technology
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
THE SHORT:
I’m putting serious effort into finding someone.
I am a Glass half full, optimistic kinda guy. I turn lemons into lemonade on a daily basis.
I want the simple things in life like waking up next to my babe and
enjoying life together.
I love watching movies, TV, dancing, going out and being creative now n then.
I am extremely tech savvy.
I wear glasses, but not in any of my pics.
I'm very honest and my moral compass points a bit above being a descent human being.
I prefer a committed dating relationship but I’m Game for a steady physical relationship also. And I do mean steady, I’m not looking to bed hop.
Message me only if you have the time to actually date.

THE LONG:

The Basics:
I am a nice & nice looking guy. I have 2 jobs, newer truck, No criminal record, all my teef and take showers regularly.
I’m looking to enjoy my life more and it would be great to find a nice lady to do that with. Like most people I’d like to have some attention, love, and affection in my life.
I have no problem givin it back. =)

Details:
One of my goals is to one day take my 2nd job and make it into my career. My other goal is to find a nice & beautiful woman to enjoy this great life with.I love taking pictures and trying to find that one unique shot that stands out.I still love to moderately go out to the clubs but not to drink & get stupid, I love to dance.
I like to go out n just be active.

I know exactly what kind of girl I’m looking for and what I want out of a relationship. Unfortunately this isn't a perfect world.
I don't expect to get everything I want but if I get close, I will be happy...

I believe If 2 people have common sense, have affection for each other and decide to pour 100% effort into a relationship, Good & long lasting things will happen.

We don't have to be instantly "serious" but I am looking for something that is steady as a committed relationship or a steady physical relationship.

The Simple process of online dating:
1.Talk on/offline for a week max.
2.Make a plan to meet within 2 or 3 weeks max.
3.Meet and enjoy each other’s company in a public place for breakfast, lunch, dinner or a drink.
4.Go home and let each other know how ya felt and go from there.

If you can’t or won’t meet someone in a reasonable amount of time,
then you shouldn't be on here because you have no time to date or
you’re not truly interested in that person.

Things that get my attention
but are NOT requirements:
1. I'm mostly attracted to thinner girl with just a lil meat
on the bones. This does not mean you shouldn't say hi.
Say hi and i may say hi back.
2. I am a sucker for a lady that can rock the black skirt/dress n heels style.
3. I love a girl with common sense
4. Computer smarts/games or interest in tech
5. Photography
6. Commitment
7. A lady that likes to get out and be adventurous

Things I avoid:
drug/Meth heads: {its nuts how many girls are on drugs these days}

Drama: please, if u lack the common sense to avoid simple drama in your life pass me up. I want to simply enjoy life and the benefits of being in a relationship. Seriously, It’s that simple if ya let it be.

No Motivation types: I love to sit around n watch TV and play games as much as the next guy, but If you have no desire 95% of the time to explore life a bit, dance or go out n enjoy the day doing some kind of activity we won’t last too long. Life is short, You could be clipped by a garbage truck one day n become a vegetable, find out you got cancer & die a month later. Be mugged & stabbed in the parking lot of a drug store. Live & enjoy while you can.

My OKcupid Pet peeves:
Women who state, that they have a Boyfriend but are looking to be JUST friends and that’s it. Who gets on a dating site to look for just friends only? That’s what Facebook is for…Please remove your profile and quit being a tease.

So I'm talking to a girl for a about 3 or 4 days and we make plans to meet and exchange numbers. I ask her to send me a few current pics. nothing lewd or illicit. she send me 2 full body shots and i reply back with "OMG, I just wanna give you a a big hug n grab that tight waist of yours, goodness! LOL, ima stop lookin at ya pics." she replies back with yeah, pretty sure you are creeping me out, so...
I'm thinkin shes joking, so I'm like aww... well long story short, she decides to cancel the date then ignore me. Granted it may not have been the best choice of words but it did not warrant a full cancellation of the date. I replied back with that's cool, I'm guna look at this in a glass half full sorta way. I prolly just dodged a bullet because I don't want a girl in my life that will drop me at a moments notice for no GOOD reason.

In my school of reason of common sense you drop someone because they show signs that they may not be good because they have a serious problem like drinking, criminal history and no signs of changing, being a jobless mooch for no good reason, drug use, physical abuse, a level of lack of respect towards you or your kids, mental abuse or lack of common sense that creates drama in their lives.

It’s sad, but I’m sure I’ll be adding more later.

Additional info:
I live vicariously through myself. I once had an awkward moment, just to see how it feels. Cuba imports cigars from me. Mosquitoes refuse to bite me purely out of respect. In museums, I am allowed to touch the art. I've won the lifetime achievement award, twice. When I drive a new car off the lot, it increases in value. I bowl overhand. I tip 100%. I've taught old dogs a variety of new tricks. I once won the world series of poker using UNO cards. Roses stop to smell me. I build tree houses with finished basements. Stay thirsty my friends. =)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At the moment, doing the work and school thing. I would like to get some solid paperwork under my belt letting potential employers know that im good with computers. A+,N+, WEB Design.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Web site design, PC repair, Cooking, Dancing,Thinking outside the box,Being a good BF when I have a GF, Engaging in deep conversation, if the subject material is right.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, im 6'4 tall... my deep voice, people say I sound like a white guy. I guess its that professional MAN in me =)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TV/MOVIES:Greys anatomy, DR Who,The avengers movie,The walking dead,Star trek,Star wars,Anime, Almost anything SCI-FI related.

MUSIC:R & B, POP, Heavy Metal, Rap

FOOD:Habatchi grill, Mexican, Italian, American food, Home cooking i got mad skills 4 real.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family,Computer, internet, cell phone, good place to eat and a good dance club.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Getting a good GF. It seems to be a hard thing to do on here unless you gota six pack and i don't mean beer.
Finishing school.
Making more money.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On OK cupid, or POF untill i find someone. playing PC games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Get to know me and drag them outa me like a good GF should.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*you happen to be my dream girl. =)
*you Want to meet and you are actually free to do things
*not talking to 50 other guys on OK cupid
*Have common sense
*A want to enjoy life
*Can rock a skirt/dress n heels
*you want to be in a steady physical or meaningful relationship