Ok ladies please hear me out. I am constantly harassed and approached by people who are after money with whatever kind of scam they are running. I am not sure if they are even women. Because of this, I don't want to waste my time here exposing myself to potential scams more than I have to. I am not that desperate or needy for attention. I strongly believe this site has been taking over by the sex industry.
So think about what I am saying here. How are you going to find a decent man on this kind of site. This is really a sex site. Though I love sex, I don't need to put myself out there in this way. So I think any decent man would walk away from here. This means that you are also probably just spinning your wheels and going around in circles chasing men who just want sex. They will say whatever you want to hear. Are you that desperate?
I am going to be skeptic with any message I receive on here. I hope we meet somewhere else. You may need to prove to me very fast that you have good intentions if you communicate with me here.
I prefer the personal approach in getting to know someone.
Looking at the breakdown on this site, men out number the women 10 to 1. But in the real world, there are more women seeking a good man than there are men looking for a good woman.
This tells me that this may not be the place for me to find the right woman. Even though I am seeking friendship first. I know of much better places to look.
Its takes two to build a relationship.
Chasing leads you only to your own tail
It takes two to take a chance of what could happen.
How could men be men when they are treated like worms in the dirt, not to be trusted and to be compared to the last relationship a lady has had.
If you want a real man, seek elsewhere. They are all to desperate chanting out "Pick me...Pick me..."
So I guess what I am telling you is not to choose me. I am too busy elsewhere being a man, raising my daughter like a father should, helping friends get through hard times. I prefer spending my precious time with quality people who can humble themselves enough to care and understand who I am as I shall do the same for them.