(Completely serious about that last part - see below!)
I'm a cis guy attracted to men. Physical stats are in the sidebar if they matter, though I'm more likely to be into you if they don't. I don't have any physical requirements when it comes to guys I'm attracted to, as long as their basic hygiene's up to snuff.
In terms of personality, I like all stripes there too. Confidence or cockiness can be a plus, self-assurance and self-confidence are sexy, and while a good sense of humor's great, just being caring and attentive is just as nice.
I'm a chameleon when it comes to activities - I'm just as likely to enjoy a night out dancing as a movie night at home, or a hike in the mountains, or a session of window shopping. SoCal's got plenty to do, and as long as I've got good company, I'll probably be having fun.
Full disclosure: if all goes to plan I'll be heading off to Japan sometime around April. Still, don't let that stop you. I'm open to finding friends, hangout buddies, friends with benefits, pen pals, online friends, boyfriends, pets - I'm expanding my horizons and meeting tons of cool new people. I'm not looking to be monogamous, and I'm fine with seeing guys who are in open relationships. I am looking to explore my kinkier side, as well, so that won't scare me off.
TL;DR: If you're interested, just send me a message. :) I'm not picky.